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How can I get guys to like me....Im 13 and have never had a boyfirend...is that like abnormall? (link)
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Not at all!!! You're only 13!!! Don't worry about it. You've only been a teenager for a YEAR. You have plenty more time to get your first boyfriend. Don't let friends and peers pressure you into thinking you need to get a boyfriend- take your time, and soon you'll find a guy who's actually WORTH dating. X0-ARii-0X
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i have a problem.. see im gettin over this guy who i posted a lot about in my other questions.. but he had a gf so im gettin over him.. but i have a friend and hes been helping me alot with this.. hes been my shoulder to cry on and i think im startin to like him.. the thing is he is too.. BUT he recently told one of my best friends that he likes her.. now shes gettin clingy and there not even goin out and shes gettin obsessive! hes not sure wats hes gonna do bc hes not sure if he still likes her.. but he always tells me not to worry about it and how confused he is and stuff.. i talk to him for hours on the phone and today i was sitting in church and she was in between us and next to him was my other good friend ashley.. she turns to me and goes.. i dont like how ashley is with dan .. shes startin to get me madd..shes flirting with him soo much.. im like ashley has a bf.. but wat really bothered me was that she has noo idea wats going on! i dont want her to get hurt but i have a feelin he doesnt like her that much anymore and i dont know wat to do bc if she said that about ashley, wat would she say about me??? wat do i do??
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talk to your friend [the guy you like] about your best friend. ask him if he really still likes her, because you like him a lot and you don't want her to get hurt. then, talk to your best friend about it. tell her you like him very, very much, and you don't want to hurt her but you want to know if, should he ask you out and you said yes, she would be okay w/ the two of you dating. if she says no, remember, friends should come first, no matter how much you like this guy. before you and the boy do anything more than being friends, have him talk to her about everything, so she understands your feelings for each other. if she doesn't give the two of you her "blessings", maybe you should rethink your relationship w/ the boy AND her. you shouldn't have to decide between the two of them. tell them that no matter what happens you are going to remain friends with them both. good luck!!! X0-ARii-0X
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ok so there's this guy *Tim* and I have been talking to him alot on IMs but everytime we talk I somehow end up flashing him on my web cam. I mean I have dumps two of my boyfriends(now my exs). I really like this guy so don't tell me something like stop talking to him. I just wanna know if there is anything sneaky or something like that so that I don't end up flashing him!
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if you don't want him to see that, you probably shouldn't have it on your webcam. i don't REALLY understand the whole flashing part, but if he's ASKING you to flash him, maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he's doing that. if he happens to SEE that, maybe you should be more careful w/ your webcam and such. good luck!!! X0-ARii-0X ♥ ♥
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I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why? (link)
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Yes, it's technically fair, because your parents are just looking out for you. And, anyway, most young "couples" rarely go out and do anything at all, so it's probly better that you get to start dating at an age when you can go out and have fun instead of just being able to SAY you have a boyfriend. GO0D LUCK!!! ♥ -X0-ARii-0X-
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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together? (link)
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if you really love him, and care about him, you should stay together. talk to him about this and ask him if he feels the same way you do. make sure you guys talk a few times a week, and try to spend time w/ him whenever possible. if you're worrying about this, it sounds like you really DO care about him, so don't break up w/ him just yet. if, when school starts again, you still feel distant from him, maybe it's time to end the relationship or take a break. GO0D LUCK!!! ♥
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O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!
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Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
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Your heart was broken. You were betrayed by two of the people you thought you could trust the most- the one you love and your sister. It's completely normal to feel angry and depressed. But try to focus on the better things in life. Talk to your sister. Tell her why it's so hard for you to forgive her, and ask her why she had to betray you. Although you probably knows, tell her it will take a while for you to trust her again. She is probably feeling as miserable as you are right now, so don't be too hard on her. Talk to your friends about what's going on. They will be able to talk to you, give you advice, and help you through this. Nearly everyone who's ever been in love has also been heart broken. Don't let this incident ruin your life. He obviously WASN'T the one for you, even though it felt that way. I'm not gonna tell you to move on, because that's something you can't force. Just remember, the scars will heal in time. Just give yourself a few months to spend solely with friends and family, and allow your mind and heart to heal and forgive. It's natural to feel like you will never forgive your sister, but, in time, you will come to realize that she is one of the few people in this world who love you the most, and when you need her, she will always be there for you. Good luck, and feel better. xo
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I like this guy, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He's hinted to me pretty strongly that he likes me, but I'm not sure. What should I do? Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see if he asks me out? By the way, I'm a girl and I'm 14. (link)
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Tell him you have a crush on him, and ask him if he likes you too. Don't pressure him, though- if he doesn't like you back, tell him you can still be friends. If he DOES like you back, ask him out. GO0d LUCK!! xo
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