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is a 14 yr. old to younng 2 date a 16 (link)
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No, a 14 yr.old is okay to date a 16 yr. old. Im 14 bout to turn 15 and my bf is 16 bout to turn 17 so I dont see a big difference in 2 years. So I think its okay:)
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okay so I just broke up with my boyfrined and i feel horrible! i feel like such a bad person. he was crying and saying "why are you doing this to me?" and stuff like that and i started crying and i feel horrible that i broke his heart. i feel like dying. im such a bad person. (link)
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Your not a bad person,if you broke up with him their must have been a good reason. So don't feel horrible about you just grew apart from him, is all. So whatever you don't feel bad. Things happen for a reason
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Hey im a 13/f and i have a b/f and he is so cool and i love him to death. But he is getting absessed with kissing me should i let him or not ??? but please help..... (link)
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Hi, if you don't feel comfortable kissing you all the time, just tell him that, but say in a kind way! Make sure he doesn't go past what your comfortable with. So, let him know now what you are comfortable with so he get a better understanding, and if he don't do so, and try to take it farther, Dumb him, Okay. I hoped I helped:)
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I'm the one that asked about sending a question to somebody's inbox. Okay, I'm in 9th grade now, but let's go back to 7th grade. There's this boy named Andrew. We were like best friends in 7th grade. We walked to band class together, we sat together at lunch, we talked in band, he called me almost every afternoon, etc. He was dating my best friend. I didn't like him. But when they broke up, I started liking him. So I told him that I liked him. (Oh, I didn't mention- he never asked girls out, he's REALLY shy. All the girls he dated asked him out.) Okay, so I just told him that I liked him. I didn't ask him out, because I'm not like that. I thought that he would ask me out, since he wasn't shy around ME. But he didn't. I heard that he liked me, but you know rumors. We still talked the same and everything. But it was SEVENTH grade. Little kids... Okay, so now let's move on to Tyler. I met him at church camp in the summer of 8th grade. He goes to a different school than me.(one town away, just a few minutes away) He has been telling me that he's liked me since we met. At church camp we didn't talk. But then he dated my friend, so I talked to him on the phone when she spent the night, and I went to the mall with him and my friend (his girlfriend). He broke up with my friend after a few weeks. Well now, a year later, me and him are still talking. I tell him stuff that NOBODY knows and he tells me stuff that nobody knows. I mean like, woah. We talk on the phone some, not much. He says he likes me. He tells me I'm beautiful. He's pretty popular and bad, unlike Andrew. But the thing is, he has a girlfriend. He said the only reason that he's going out with her and not me is because he knows her better and because I'm kinda shy. One night, he said "I REALLY like you" and he says "If I break up with my girlfriend, will you go out with me?" He's asked me a billion times and I say yes everytime. I'm just waiting on him, I guess. But it's kinda getting old. Okay, so the third guy, Will. I really like him. I met him in 5th grade. I go to his church pretty often. We're... friends, I guess. He's HOTTT! AH. I've been liking him off and on since 7th grade. He found out that I liked him at the end of 8th grade. At the beginning of this school year, he told his church friends that he was thinking about hooking up with me. The word spread to me and I was like "Omg. Wow. This can't be true." So yeah, the church went to a football game together, and he sat with me. (I'm kinda shy around boys and at first, just to let you know) So I didn't really talk to him.. And he sat with me at pep rallies at school. He called me, we talked. He asked me to go to the mall, I said yes, but we didn't get to go. Then he just kinda stopped talking to me. Then like a week later I read his "about me" on his myspace and it said "My name is blah..asdf .. blah .. 'i can't get a girlfriend to save my life, as my cousin jessica says'...blah" So I messaged him and said "you COULD get a girlfriend to save your life if you wouldn't give up on her while she's trying to get to know you" and he said "i know that's true but you never said more than 3 words to me... it didn't seem like you wanted to get to know me" ... so yeah, that was the beginning of the year. He knows I still like him. But he's not doing anything about it. We talk on the internet alot. But in person, when me and my best friend are sitting together, he'll come up to us and say "hey carley!" and talk to her alot and barely talk to me" .... ah, help? (link)
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Okay, you weren't kidding about it being long. Well i'm going to assume that you don't whether or not any of these guys count on a relationship. So, ummm...Andrew was like...I would say real close to a relationship, but not one because first off he never told you he liked you so if they don't say it back it's not a relationship. Secondly he had went with your friend, so you shouldn't have told him you like him. Never go with friends old boyfriends, trust i'm trying myself to heed does words, tough! Next, Tyler. Once again he went with your freiend DO NOT PERSUE HIM! He's a liar and he's wrong for doing so. If he really liked you he wouldn't have even gone with that other girl, he would have been with you first! That was lame excust to say I know her better, if you told each other things that nobody else knows then i would think he knows you more! So, don't EVER wait arond for a guy, just move on.
Will that was a possible relationship, cuz ya'll liked each other and ya'll dated. But, then he stopped calling you, which wasn't right. Maybe(Not to blame it on you) you should have tried to open up a little more. I know your shy, but don't let it hold you back, Okay break through the shyness. Im a shy person myself but i try to not let it hold me back. So, he's messing with your head by talking to your friend. Either he like's you and is trying to make you jelsous or he doen't like you but your friend.
I have a question is it the same friend that went with the other guys you liked? And here's my lesson for you Do not be shy, trust me its gonna hold you back from alot of things. Okay, so try not to let it show so much, and when a boy likes you he likes you and will tell you and if you like him, tell him. Do not date close friends ex-boyfriends. I hoped i help! If you need anymore help just hit me up. Wish you luck:)
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i met this guy and he told me that im beautiful.
but how do i get him to actually fall for me?
like, he likes the way i look, but how do i get him to like my personality?
i know i should just be me, but what else? (link)
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You can't make a guy fall for you, (trust me, i tried and it doesn't work) You have the right idea about being yourself, like the other advice you got, if you change you, then he would fall in love with the image you tried to be,and not you! So, just spend time with him and let him get to know you better and you could get to know him too. And if he doesn't like your personilty, too bad he's missing out on a wonderful person and it's his loss. Because your personilty is what makes you, you. So dont change it for nobody, okay girl:) I hope i helped you!
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I'm 15/f. I need to ask somebody a question. It's pretty long. I'll send it to your inbox, if you're interested in helping me. I don't want to put it on here, because someone that I know might figure out that it's me. It's about me and some guys. Thanks :) (link)
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Okay i'll help, no prob...
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ok well i have this ''friend'' he is actually my ex boyfriend who is entirely my 1st true love him and i went out for 2 years on and off our relationship has always been really bumpy he just turned 19 yesterday and i turned 14 last week on thursday so as you can see him and i have always had some issues but we still love eachother.. well anyways i have a new boyfriend now who is my age and i like him alot but i promised travis my v-card [virginity] and he says next time we chill its gonna happen and rite now i dont really no whut to do bcuz i still love travis i just am not sure wheather he deserves that from me if hes not even still my man help me.. (link)
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Okay well first off Kenny is your man, and you should be faithful to him, okay. Secondly, Travis is way too old for you, i personal dont think he's still your man. I also think think that all he wants from you is sex. So dont give it to him, i know you may want to, but dont do it because the likelyhood is that after you do it your going to regret it, so when you do have sex, make sure your ready 100% ready and that your in love, okay:) I wish all the luck, with your decision, just make sure it's a good one okay.
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