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hey! i'm amber and i am the best at giving advice ♥ so come to me and all your problems will go away... okay so maybe thats wishful thinking, but i still love you ♥♥amber
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hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess
huunn.. i think hes a little high maintenance. it seems like he expects a lot from you. tell him straight forward that you love him, tell him you'll split your time between him & your friends. if that doesnt work, then im afraid hes not worth it sweetie. :-(
hope i helped darlin .
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?
aww.. that is so sweett!! i would like melt into the ground like then and there!!
is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong..
that is a little weird... i mean hes 1O years older then you.. isnt that a little weird, like he's graduated college (hopefully) and you havent even graduated high school? Yes, its weird, the older you get though (3Os,4Os,5Os) the less the age gap matters.. so come back to him later.. like 10 - 20 years.. haha
xo-amber
ps - if you're truly in love though, theres nothing you can do to stop that..
I'm 13/f. I just discovered that the person I have had a huge crush on for two years (he's really cool; the smartest kid in the grade and he's really nice and he's my only guy friend) doesn't like me back. I feel awful. He doesn't know. Is there anything I can do? How can I deal with this? Should I try to stop liking him and move on? Please I know that a 13-year-old's problems aren't as important to you as an older person, but still it would be really really nice if someone could help me.
aww...honey, 13 year olds are just as important as anyone else!
I've been in this situation when i was younger, yes doll, i have and it is so not a good feeling, i know.
Don't dwell on the fact that that one boy doesn't like you, because i'm sure others do. Its very hard to move on, but try and find another boy that you might like, and you know what...? if ya don't go on likeing that boy, or just be totally and completely single!
You could always tell him, to see if maybe he does like you, and it was a lie, but that might be a bad idea. go with your heart, and do what it tells you (but also always use ur brain haha).
well dollface, good luck! i'm so very sorry!
hope i helped --- ask me if you need anymore help!
xo- Amber
Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.
Im not really sure that u wanna date a guy who is
a-two years older then u
b- is 2 years older, but still cried wen u told him "i dont know"
He seems.. sensitive...
haha
well... i'd have one of my friends try to talk to him if i were you... let him down gently... write him a note... be sweet... be gentle
im sooo bored and all my friends r goin 2 the creek to drink but im affraid 2 go cause last time i got in a fight wit this kid n i was drunk i couldnt defend myself n my friends just stood there n watched n i lost my $300 cell phone n my zippo! but i wanna go out so bad n this girls goin that i like and idk wut 2 do cause every1 there is from north n im from central so if i get in a fight every1 will be against me so idk wut to dooo no1 else can hang out cause donald n adam have work n every1 else is goin got gabbys party which i wasnt invited to ahh
cumm on, this is defiently a no brainer... dont go...show up @ gabby's partee, visit don n adam @ work... just pleez dont go to a party and get drunk and get in a fight. u cud realy get ur self in a lot of trouble. Hope i helped!
xoxo *muah*, T-Belle