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well i was going out with this boy and we were off and on agian for about a coupel of months. This last time i think it was the 4th or 5th time we are goin out. but, a few weeks ago, he broke up eith me because he belived some other girl. She hates me because he likes well liked me and not her. so anyway, its been at least 2 weeks and i cant stop thinking about him, and i cant help but to like him. my freinds and his friends tell me that he still likes me and wants anthore chance. I dint no what to say. i want to say yes because i do like him but.. i dont want to get hurt anymore. we still talk kinda it took about 12 days to start talking again. its so hard to because most of my friends hang out with him and so im there too. When im with my other friends they all get mad at me because im not with them. so then i try to hang out with more cause we've been friends longer but he's always with them. so then his friend tells me that he still likes me. i do to but i dont wanna. How do i get over him for good? This isnt my 1st bouyfreind but it's still hard. im in 8th grade and about to enter High School. (link)
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look, im gonna be straight forward and honest with you.
deal with it hun.
youre not even in highschool yet.. you are going to go to highschool, meet an older boy, get new friends, and forget about all of this bullshit drama. you are going to have MUCH bigger problems and issues to worry about. so just do me the favor. take the load off your shoulders and let it goooooooo!.
god, you sound just like i did in middle school..
my eighth grade year i met a boy, who i thought i loved. got pretty serious.. in the freaking EIGHTH GRADE.. and all the same drama happened to me. my best friend told him i liked someone else when i didnt.. he broke up with me.. started dating her. and i was in such a big mess.
then, i got to highschool, met another guy.. and got myself in even bigger messes..
i know you think all this drama and stuff matters SO much right now. but i assure you it means nothing and i assure you by the time you reach 10th grade you'll laugh about it and you will ask yourself why you wasted time on it.
just let it blow over you like you dont even care. i know its hard to do, but just look whats waiting for you in the future. :)
hope you dont hate me, just trying to give you a little heads up cus i was just like you, so i basically know your future.. and you just need to NOT WORRY. everything will be okay..
hakunamatata!(: hahaaa
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ok,
well iv started going out with this girl, and we have went out before but she left me for her ex. and i understood at the time because well they had something differnt and yeah.
but now we are going out again and she said at the beggining she definately doesnt like her ex again. but now she wants to give it a break for a while to sort out her head. because she said she wants to make 100 percent sure she wont fuck me over again and she isnt sure whats going on in her head about him. she said she knows they dont work and she doesnt want to have these feelings.
so do you think its over? i mean...i know your probably gonna say its not worth it that she is just messing me around or whatever i just was wondering your opinion of whether or not you think she will go back to her ex. like i was one of her best friends after we broke up the first time and we get along great and she said she has liked me for ages and shouldnt havee broken up with me in the first place. but i she was just angry at her ex?
thanks (link)
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ill tell you flat out what i think.... i definitely do not think that this is the end of all of your problems with her and her ex. find out how the ex feels about her. because when you date someone for a while, and you really love them, but it didnt work out.. its hard to let it go, especially when the person doesnt leave you alone. so if the ex is always texting her saying he misses her and stuff like that, its hard not to fall for it, trust me. i did the same thing to my boyfriend with my ex.. only i ended up cheating on him because i loved my boyfriend and didnt wanna lose him, but i wanted to see what it would feel like getting back with my ex. my boyfriend eventually got sick of it and now we are over... anyways, i always say that i am COMPLETELY done with my ex, but he always makes his way back to me one way or another. and its always a problem.. it sucks =/ but i really think you need to persuade her that if things didnt work out before with the two of them, chances are, they never will. and try to find out who her ex is, and try to one up him, and make her want you more than him. dont let her think he has anything you dont..
hope i helped & good luck
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