You can call me Kila. Im good at giving advice. A lot of my friends say that Im good at helping people and I should make a career out of it. Heres some advice for everybody: What people think of you don't count but what you think of yourself do, when its about you. If you feel and think you pretty well you are and no one can tell you other wise.
Love,
Kila
Gender: Female
Location: Mississippi
Occupation: NA
Age: 16
Member Since: February 24, 2007
Answers: 22
Last Update: March 20, 2007
Visitors: 4023
Main Categories:
Love Life
Work/School Relationships
Families
View All
|
| |
Ok so theres this guy that I really like & i dont know if he likes me. He knows that I like him & he still flirts with me like he did before he knew. But I just really need to know for sure if he likes me. So should I write him a note or get my friends to talk him, (but i dont know if they would know what to say to make it sound like im not desperate but let him know i like him) or what.
P.S. dont say in person because ima chicken and also dont say email/I.M. because his internet is down. (link)
| |
well, write down what you want your friends to say and get them to practice on it for they can remeber what to say, or if you don't want to do that write him a note telling him how much you like him and you wondering do he like you.
|
|
Ok, my best guy friend and I have been friends for about 4 years. Now I realize how much I really like him as more than a frind. But, now, it's too late, because he's pretty much dating the prettiest girl in school (big boobs,cheerleader, total package) And i'm just sitting there in the sidelines. He means the world to me, and now I have no idea what I should do, because i'm actn really weird around him. And I'm afraid to tell him how I feel, because he will prolly just tell me that we're only ever gonna be friends. Help! (link)
| |
Well just tell him Im so jealous that you got a girlfrined because I wanted to date you. But do it in playing matter. And if he react in a good way stick with it, but if he react in a bad way say that you was just playing. I hope this help
|
|
I`ll start off by saying im sixteen years old and I am completely head over heals for a boy. My good friend had a girlfriend for a couple weeks and never told me and he found out i was really upset about it and he finally came clean. He told me it was too wierd telling me about it because he has always had a thing for me, and for some reason i couldnt spit out i`ve always had a thing for you too, and i regret it. We hung out the other day and i just wanted time to go so slow, i always want to be with him. He is still going out with this girl and i am heartbroken. I dont want pity from anyone, i just want advice to help me move along with this, because i have never been so in love in my life, i have completely fallen. (link)
| |
Tell him, how you feel if you don't tell him how would he know. Things will be a whole lot better if you tell him. You know he like you. Some girls head over heals over boys that don't even know they are alive. But your guy like you. If you really can't tell him out of your mouth write him a letter. Explain to him why you wrote him a letter then telling him.
|
To start off, I am 16/f :D
I don't know why but I've been feeling down lately. Bit depressive to be precise. I know I shouldn't feel any sad because I have lot of good thing going on for me. I got pretty decent grades for mid term, my mom's trusting me more, I've got a great boyfriend, made new friends and whatnot.
However, I can't help but to wonder, how long will my relationship last with him? Just for record, I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks. Previous relationships just ended weirdly. It was either me dumping a guy because I kinda got over them, which is bad but it was better than me just hanging on to them for the sake of their sadness that might come, or it just ended with neither of us breaking up. So I decided to give my self some break so I haven't had any relationships for over 6 months before my current boyfriend. And this new guy I'm going out with, I've been going out with him for a week and 3 days, so it has yet to hit 2 weeks. He's great and all but I don't know... Little things that gets to me. Like he doesn't talk to me at all online when he's on AIM, I mean he kind of ignores me until I IM him first, and when I saw him today at work, he didn't hug me or kiss me goodbye. He appologized later on the phone something like..."I am sorry I didnt kiss you goodbye, my workers would've gave me a hardtime" or something like that, meaning pretty much the same but I can't remember what he exactly said. But obviously he doesn't care if other people see's because he can apparently kiss me in some restaurants and whatnot out in public, and in front of his best friend and my friends, so I am probably making a big deal when it's not because I tend to do that sometimes. So I want to confront him about that, which I am even not sure about how I am going to say without sounding like I am mad... So basically, I am just lost... I am not even sure I'm mad or disappointed, confused. What's going on in my head? (link)
|
To keep a relationship going is talking even through you feel as if you making a big deal out of something still ask him about it. Don't think that your relationship going to end early because of your pervious relationship because all the time you thinking of that and not thinking about the relationship you got now and what can make it better you going to belive things is worse didn't it really is. But please talk to him about things that sometime bother you and if he don't like when you talk to him about things he was not good for you anyway.
Hope this help
|
|
ok two of my "friends" have been calling me a whore to my face and behind my back because i kissed a guy at a dance who was my date and we were not going out because he is not ready for commitment(and i did not know that at the time) and also because i have guy friends who are kinda touchy feelly but are just my friends please someone tell me what to do. (link)
|
Well, tell them that you don't like the fact that they calling you a whore and that if they were your real friends they wouln't call you such names.
If they get mad at you and don't change after you tell them that well they was not good friends from the start. Try not to worry about what people say I know that its bad when your friends say such things like that but if you are not a whore what do it matters. It sound to me that they are jealous one might like the guy you went to the dance with and they jealous that they didn't go to the dance with him. The way to handle jealous people is to make them even more jealous and know that you are not nothing they say you is. I hope this helps
Read your bible it always help best
|
|
Alright... so i've been dating this guy for a couple of months and I broke off with him today... the reason why I broke it off with him is because I couldn't handle not seeing him only 2-3 times a month. He's in college and lives about 30-45 minutes away from me. I broke it off because he doesn't really pay attention to me and although he is a really nice guy I just think he's not ready to be more than just friends and he agreed that he "doesn't know what he wants." The last couple of months have been pretty bumpy because I went to get tested for HIV the first time in my life and I told him. He never asked how it went and didn't talk to me for a couple of days after I told him and so that was pretty much my deciding factor. I was really scared and needed someone to be there and he wasn't there for me just like he wasn't there a couple of times we'd been dating. So anyway, I talked to him on AIM and asked him some questions and he said that I've been bitchy lately and distant and I told that I have been because, "everytime I get atttached to you I end up being more disappointed than not." and he said some hurtful things and I was like "well, then I guess this is the best thing for both of us." and then he said... "well, fuck you too." and then blocked me... I feel really bad because I've never had to break up with anyone. Usually i'm the one that gets broken up with... I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should call him or wait a couple of days and then call him. I told one of my older friends and he was like, if he isn't mature enough to have that type of conversation and go through the whole, "no hard feelings thing" then he's not worth your time... I just grrr. I hate being cross with someone... anyway... some help? By the way, he's caused me a lot of tears because I constantly thought about him and he came off like he's never really thought about me. I think he's just a really passive guy and that he really does care about me, but doesn't know what to do... Also, distance is probably a factor, but I think it's just the chemistry between us wasn't good enough. The first few weeks we went out was really good because he'd pay attention to me and then the later weeks got worse and worse where he wouldn't text me or IM me. *sigh* help please :( (link)
|
Well, I want to say that it was a very good thing that you broke it off with him. The reason why I said that is that you saw the true him come to surface. Did you like the way he was reacting after you broke up with him. Im thinking that you didn't like the way he react well, that was the true him and if you didn't like the real him. Well you did the right thing. If he was a nice person he would had understand. Can't anybody make you cry because if you take in what he said about you well of course you going to cry but if you block what he say from his mouth and understand that he just pissed because you drop him and you don't need the 2to3 times a month visit anymore you will not cry because you did a good thing for yourself.
read the bible it always help.
|
|