hey everyone! i am 17 and a senior in highschool. i live in alabama! i am a member of clearview baptist church and i am a christian! if you have any questions about my faith, IM me and i will be glad to talk to you about what i believe... i love going to church, hanging out with friends, the computer/internet, singing, and just having fun!
well, enjoy!
E-mail: ashlie9206@hotmail.com
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Location: Sweet Home Alabama!
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Age: 17
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Member Since: May 20, 2005
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Hey Ash, you know me.
Well the problem is throughout the past few years I've liked all these different girls and I try really hard but they never seem to like me back or I don't get them in time. The girls who usually like me are ok but are most of the time fat,younger,or have some weird,bad flaw and I don't want to set my standards at that. I feel I'm a pretty good looking guy, but sometimes at the wrong place (prodominently white school) to get girls for me. Tomorrow I feel is my last chance to talk to this senior cheerleader, but I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend or anything but I tried to get somebody to give her a note today (they forgot) I still have the note and all. So what I'm asking is what should I do to get the girls that I want and also what can I do to maybe get this girl tomorrow.
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well, this is a tough one... i guess all i can really tell you is to be yourself and be sincere, and girls will be more likely to like you than if you try to do something to impress them or someting like that... if you do that, i think you will find more girls that truely like you for you and not just like the "character that you're playing"... you'll find a girl that you like and that likes you back, i'm sure of it.. just be patient
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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what? (link)
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don't take it so personally... maybe he had other plans.. and maybe he just didn't feel like coming, it may not have anything to do with you... maybe you're just overreacting, find out the details before you think that
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;;well for starters.. i think i might like my best guy friend. We get along so well &&__ could honestly talk for hours on end. He's always there when i need a laugh or just a hug. However___ he does drugs.. & drinks. but not all the time, but to the point where it gets out of hand at times.. :-( i really am stuck. All my friends think he likes me. but he always babbles on about this girl from arrowhead, but his friends say he does that just to make me jealous.. {i would really love your opinions..}
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ok, if you really like him, tell him... and if you don't want him to get hurt, then help him with his drug problem... ask him to do something with you and friends that you know don't do that instead of going with his friends that do that...
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There's this guy @ school, Derek, who I'm friends with, and I've known him for a few years.. and I've been in love with him for the past 2 years. School just ended, and I just can't comprehend the thought that I won't see him again for another 3 months. The thought of it makes me nauseus, and I get depressed. Last night I cried myself to sleep because I missed Derek so much.. and school just ended yesterday. He doesnt have a cell fone, but I have his house #. I wanna call him, but I don't wanna sound dumb. Ive never called him before, and he doesnt have my number. I dont know what to do.. I just really wanna see him, or atleast talk to him. I'm going to go crazy this summer if I dont. What should I do? Btw im really shy :/ (link)
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go for it! call him... most people miss out b/c they are afriad to say how they feel.. you've got to overcome your shyness and just talk to him, you'll feel better if you do
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I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!! (link)
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my advice would be to move on.... there are so many other guys out there who you will like just as much or more... you may think that your heart has broken and will never be fixed, but you're still young and have plenty of time to find that special someone... hang out with your friends to get your mind off of the situation and eventually you will meet someone else who will make you forget about him.
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hi, i'm chloe
This boy asked me to go out with him as in be in a girlfriend, boyfriend thing. I wanted to say yes but said no instead because, I wasn't sure I knew how to be someones girlfriend and would like more to go out on a couple of dates with him than start a relationship. But my friend had set the whole "asking me out thing" up, so I'd have a boyfriend and is now saying "he's probably the only boy who'll ever like you" which is making me regret doing it.But I'll look stupid if I ask him out now plus he's being a bit out of order to me at the moment. What should I do? (link)
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you don't have to "know" how to be someone's girlfriend... just be yourself... if you feel comfortable going on a few dates with him first so that you can get to know him better, tell him that . i doubt that he will be the only guy that will ever like you... there's plenty of great guys out there that you'll meet that will like you... but just tell him that you want to get to know him better and then once you're more comfortable being around him, he will probably get the hint. *hope i helped* :)
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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what? (link)
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i'd say yes, give him a chance... if he really likes you and you like him, then it shouldn't matter how old he is... heck, if he was 2 years younger than me i wouldn't care lol... just get to know him better and maybe he will open up and not be so shy around you. good luck! :)
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