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Hey Im 18 years old and a sophmore in college. I love helping people out with there problems. Believe it or not my childhood and now my small but so far hecktic adulthood has been horrible. But I grin and bear it and just smile because i know somewhere out there someone is in a worse situtation then me...I am told that Im really good at giving advice expecially about relationships and family problems. But it is also well know that I cant take my own advice to save my life. I've saved my bestfriends marrige and her life...and Im here for anyone and everyone who needs a helping hand...you can always email me Im always checking that, have a great day!

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Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Sales Rep.
Age: 18
MSN: blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 9, 2005
Answers: 47
Last Update: December 1, 2005
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I have changed a lot ever since my dad died. I have become sad. Like not just sad, but like "depressed" I don't know if I am, but I'm afraid that I am. I don't want to get out of bed in the morning and have to push myself to even sit by my friends. When I am with my friends I try to laugh and smile to make it so that they don't have to see me this way, but I can't do it much longer. My grades are dropping and my parents don't suspect anything yet. I don't want them to know, they don't really understand. I don't feel comfortable talking to my mom because she cries every time i talk about him, and my step dad... well I just can't talk to him. I don't like my councilor, besides, he would talk to my mom and step dad. I can't talk to my grandmas or aunts, I just don't know what to say. My boyfriend would understand, but we aren't that far in the relatiopnship. So I don't know if he would be comfortable, it might scare him away. My father died 3 years ago, I don't know why it is just starting to bug me now. My whole life is confusing! Can you help with any of it? thanks for whatever you can do in advance!

my dad died 5 years ago next sunday. its hard i know. its hard to lose your bestfriend, and your father figure. its okay to cry and hurt and its okay if you want to talk to your boyfriend then do because no matter if its the first month or 4 years from now its going to be the same way the rest of your life. if you need anyone to talk to you can email me at blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com and my screen name is toblonde4you86...im here for you

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okay well i have a little white sore on the inside of my lip. like on the way bottom where your teeth grow. it hurts too. i smoke and i think it might be mouth cancer. my mom knows about it but not that i smoke. and its like bleeding a tiny bit. what are the sympotms? what should i do?

you usually get little white blisters in your mouth when your running low on iron. so go buy some iron and take it and it should be gone within three days...wish you the best...dont mess with it leave it alone or it will get worse

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please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE

email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com

Hey. Dont do that. Hurting or even worse killing yourself is the most selfish thing you can do. Even if you think your on the bottom and there is no way you can get up and you feel like you want to end your life because its so horrible just remember when your gone you cant come back, people will miss you for awhile and be sad but you'll fade away to just a memorie in the past...remember who you are and what you think about yourself...relax if you need me you can IM me at Blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com


remember even if your at the bottome of the barrel and you cant go down anymore, the only way to get out of it is to go up right??????????


you can IM me at toblonde4you86 feel free to talk to me wenever you need to i always check it like 10 times a day

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hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous

dont do that, u say your only going to do it for a week but once you start doing it you cant stop it dont do that. just work out everyday and stay away from candy food products with alof of sugar...stick to salads and all meats and cheese...dont do that whole anerixic thing...oh and do as many sit ups as you cant it helps i promise

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