Well, I'm a serious sometimes funny type of person and usually my problem evolves in my love life :) ain't as lucky as you are.lol. I'm 16 and somewhat emotional. They say one of my assets is being sensitive to the feelings of others and one of my bad habits is playing with my hands while looking for words.
E-mail: phinyf@lycos.com
Gender: Female
Location: Philippines
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Yahoo: friendly_f16@yahoo.com
MSN: friendly_f16@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 13, 2005
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I am currently 16, male, and have been told I don't understand love. Even if that is true, I KNOW I love this one girl. See, we know each other very well, but we dont live close together. She moved away last year. We know there is something there, but we are both scared. What should I do? Ask her out, or wait till I can get back to her? (link)
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I think you should choose aking her out. I don't think you can right away say that you need to move on without even trying to show your feelings to her. Most girls who like a particular guy waits for the guy to ask them out. So I really think you need to do the first move. You know each other well so that'll be easy to ask her out. Good luck!
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Theres so many drugs and violence and sex in my school i some times feel left out and want to join the crowd by smoking or drinking or having sex i mean my friends do it and so do my brothers they seem to get all the girls to like no girls like me but they all like my brothers and my friends
Should i join the crowd and get the hot girls?
or
Should i stay sober and not have sex ?
Signed ~Very Confused~ (link)
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Yes, they're right. It's your choice if you'll do that but it's better to stay in heaven alone without any worries than go to hell with many friends but have many worries. Using drugs is very risky and I think you shouldn't use it just to be "in" the group and I think you shouldn't also join the crowd. What if the girl will get pregnant or worse you'll catch a disease or something? You don't have a problem with that now since you aren't in the crowd yet but once you're "in" you'll get more problems than you have right now. Concentrate instead on your studies and leave the others alone if they won't listen to you. If you can't save them, save yourself.
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Ok I went to a school dance at my school like a month ago and I met one of my best friend's friends and the minute I saw him I totally liked him, later on we danced and he stared at me the whole time while we were dancing... does this mean something?! he smiled and after we danced he came over to talk to me more! Also any tips for getting a guy?! (link)
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I think he likes you too. It's pretty obvious you know. Just be by yourself I mean act like yourself because it seems that this guy that you like likes who you are. So don't change anything.
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No matter what i tell myself to do. I can't do it. I like this guy. I say to myself I'm going to go say hi to him, but when i see him i can't. I feel weird saying hi to someone that i don't have eye contact with. what do i do to get him to want to talk to me and look at me in the eyes not stare at me when he thinks that i'm not looking. what do i do? (link)
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I think he's shy to talk to you because why would he look at you when he thinks you're not looking. That's one of the signs he likes you. It's just normal that if you'll see him you'll be afraid of his rejection. But if you're ready to talk to him then talk to him about what he's bringing in his arms like for example he is bringing books then ask him are you going to the library that kind of topic. I myself have the same situation. But you're lucky he's still there within your reach. Mine? God knows where he is, but me no. I wasn't able to say my feelings or even talked to him you know and now I regret it but I've spent endless nights crying and getting desperate to find him. Now, I've accepted it. So while he's still there then talk to him and befriend him. It'll be all right, you'll see.
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well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz (link)
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I think you want him to continue liking you but he didn't so you got jealous since his attention is in another girl now. That means you're starting to like his attention to you and maybe you have even small feelings toward him. Ask yourself this if you are jealous just because you want his attention or you're jealous because you like him already or both? Hope I helped!
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A week months back I was informed my friend gave someone else a hand-job. She's 14. I know, to some people this is normal, but we live in a nice small town where nothing like that ever really happens. Here it's different. I asked her if there was anymore and she 'swore on her music' I told her to never let him back in her house again because she claims he forced her into it. (She's in love with music, anything that has to deal with music). SO, naturally I believed her. Yesterday I found out new information. She had given a hand-job twice, a blow-job one, made out alot and let him feel her up. She never told me. She claims that she's scared, I would be too. I'm so mad about her not telling me. I'm her 'best friend'? Why don't I feel like it? (link)
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You don't feel like you're her bestfriend because she doesn't consider you as such. She doesn't want you to know she's doing those things for the reason that maybe you'll get angry. These are the things we can conclude if your sources are reliable. What if the information is wrong? If it is right then confront her. See if she is lying or not when you ask her. You'll notice by the way she acts. After that, tell her the consequences that might happen and convince her not to do it anymore. If she does not listen. Just let it go. You've done your part as her bestfriend.
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ook here it goes...
well i like this kid down my street...and my neighbors cousin basicly took him away from me! She dont live here she lives like a halfhr away but w.e[she didnt kno taht i liked him] but i was soo sad that day i was cryin my eyes out its nto fair evry guy i like is either taken away or just isnt interested. now he likes her alot and it pisses me off i dun kno should i get ova him and move on or still like him and go for him? [ there not goin out but i think they r planning 2] gimme some advice on everything plz![what i should do, how to cheer up,how to mkae guys like me etcc.]
Ill rate!!!! (link)
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I think you still have a chance. If you really like him then go for it. You can go to his house and drop a neighborly visit and befriend him or if you don't like it then find another way to see him but if he doesn't seem interested then just move on. You can cheer up by concentrating on something else other than your love life. You can make guys like you by being yourself and being what you are. You can also wear fashion outfits and stay calm. Don't drool or show to the guys that you're really really interested in them. Pretend that you think of them as your friend only.
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I think I'm pretty.. but I stand next to girls at my school and my cousins who can be so beautiful, and I feel as if nothing stands out about me.
I'm pale.. like not disgustingly pale its just I dont tan easily.. and I have light-brown hair, and brown eyes.. and I mean sounds boring, but I admit I like how I look when I have makeup on, and sometimes without it. I mean, I'm not the makeup type. I skateboard and dont wear dresses and stuff and say I hate makeup and all that.. but the truth is I just want to stand out.
I have thick hair.. how can I make it look thinner? Should I get it permanately straightened or are their any special products that last and dont leave my hair greasy and stiff?
Also, what mascara is good? Sometimes I wear great lash.. and I rarely wear even THAT for makeup.. or eyeliner.. I mean I'm just trying to stand out that ONE DAY so people know how beautiful I can really be. It sucks because I'm a good person, and people say Im beautiful or pretty I just dont SEE it right now ya know?
Also, how can I lose weight around my thighs and butt area? I mean Im not fat at all but I feel a bit unproportioned..
I just wanna stand out.. and be confident..
any tips??
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It depends on the person on how he/she is feeling about his/her body. You can be confident wnen you liked your body but apparently you aren't satisfied. You can exercise a lot to lessen your weight especially exercises concerning the thighs and look at your cousins and girls at your school .Think. What is not in them that maybe can stand out in me? for example if most of them are white then you can go to the beach and do sun bathing and be tan. That way you'll stand out. In the hair category. If most of their hairs are straight you can make your hair curly and maybe put a wisp on your hair. You can do dying too. If you're open to it. You can put any color on your hair. Just look for ways to stand out and you'll definitely do.
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It's my new roommates birthday tomorrow. She's going to turn 23, and she's been living with us for the past 2 months. She rents out a room in our house and goes to school in San Francisco. My mother, her and I have become really close and it feels like she's just like a sister to me now. We are going out to dinner tomorrow for her birthday because she has no family that lives around here. I have no idea what an appropriate gift could be to get her. I was thinking maybe I could make her a simple card or something. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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It depends on what she likes that she doesn't have yet. A simple card is nice. Well, just make sure that the gift comes from your heart and sincerely given. That's the best gift you can give her.
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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?! (link)
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I think he likes you. Just do the initiative to talk to him. Maybe he did that intentionally to get you talking to him.
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Im doing a history timeline and i need to see what happaned on certain dates for my timeline and i dont know any website where i could type in 3/14/87 and see what happaned or where i could just type in 1966 and see what happaned then in that point and time .. so if you could help me that would be great! (link)
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Just go to yahoo and type 1966 history then you have a list of urls there. Just choose.
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ya ok at the begining of the year i went out wit this kid, he was really nice and everything but i dumped him for another guy after a couple months of going out. well im single now and i like the kid again, alot but i kno he doesnt really wanna go out with me again cuz i hurt him and now he's a lot more popular with the girls then wen i was wit him. should i still go for him and try to convince him im not gunna hurt him again or should i just let it go? (link)
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I think you should know if he has feelings for you still and think also what will he think if I just go back to him? Maybe he'll think that I went back to him because he's popular already. Try to make things slow first and gauge your actions and think of the consequences of your actions.
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