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My ex girlfriend won't stop trying to talk to me and still wants to be friends, even though I have told her multiple times I do not. I haven't really told her this to her face, but I do post it on my website which I know she visits regularly. She even offered to take me to the movies. I know this sounds immature and stupid, but could you help me?
Thanks,
-Dr.Socko

It's pretty obvious that she still likes you and that you don't feel the same. You need to tell her, to her face, that you don't feel the same about her. Otherwise, she'll just keep bugging you.

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theres this guy who i met when i came to a new school.. he was really funny and wed talk alot.. except hes really perverted and every joke he makes deals with something nasty... i found out that he liked me and it totally ruined our friendship.. i mean i feel so uncomfortable around him because of the thoughts he has and the fact that he likes me just makes me disgusted.. he asked me to the dance at the end of the year and said yes.. cuz i thought we could go as friends.. but i found out that he STILL liked me.. i cant talk to him anymore.. what do i do.. should i like still go to the dance with him.. i dunno gimme some thoughts

You said yes to him, so you'd have a hard time getting out of going with him without breaking his heart. I had this same problem a few months ago.

My guy friend liked me A LOT, but he was really perverted and constantly made sick jokes about being horny, sex, and that sort of stuff. He asked me to hang out, and I thought it was just as friends. Then I found out that he still liked me when I got there. I was pretty much stuck with him for the rest of the night, watching him gaze at me (I don't even WANNA know what he was thinking the whole time) and groping me. I told him to knock it off but he wouldn't stop. So I said I had to go, and he told me to stay. I agreed to stay if he had his friend/neighbor come over. He came over. My friend was still touching me (he grabbed my ass a few times). My other friend (the neighbor) told him to knock it off, but he still didn't. So then I blew up at him, and left.

I haven't talked to him in 5 months. I miss just chatting with him. Don't make the same mistake I did.

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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.

Yeah, that's sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is any unwanted sexual attention, such as catcalls, inappropriate comments, and sexual comments. If I were you, I'd report him to your counselor. He/she can find something to do about it.

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People keep making up rumors about me and I dont know who it is and I want it to stop. I could just start a huge fist fight but thats not the way I want it settled. What do I do?

Wow, I've been through that a lot. Don't start a fist fight, because in some places people can get expelled for that. I'd say just wait for it to die down, but if rumors keep starting, ask where people heard it from. This happened to me last year and I found out that my so-called friend was the one starting all the nasty rumors about me! If it gets to the point where people are physically hurting you or it's getting to you, go to the counselor.

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(15/m) I have known this girl for awhile for about 3 years. and we used to hangout and talk all the time. but now lately I havent talked to her that much and I really like her.I don't know what to do ecspecially since valentines day is coming up.(don't want to make talking to her an akward silence)
-signed lying dreamer

Give her a Valentine or a cute present! That'd be really sweet and I'm sure she'd melt! Do something personal & from the heart.

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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.

Those people that are picking on you are obviously losers with no lives whatsoever. There are a lot of couples in Hollywood in which the girl is taller than the guy. Remember Nicole Kidman & Tom Cruise?

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This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??

This is one of the few times when it's okay to have a friend to talk a guy for you. If you're friends with his friends, that makes it easier. Maybe just have them casually ask him?

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I am a 13 male and i am really attracted to a girl but i dont know how to talk to her. I'm a little afarid of girls can u help.

Try IMing her or writing her a cute note, asking her to a movie or an upcoming dance. Whatever you do, don't have a friend do it for you, that's the worst possible thing to do.

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what are some good ways to get a boy to notice you in school?? i like this kid in school but i dont think he notices me... i need help!! thanks!

Flaunt all your best qualities, be confident, and always show him that you're a fun person. Any guy will notice you for that!

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About the girls ask guys out thing, won't the guys think that the girl should pay for the movie ticket if she asked him out
*confused*

No, guys usually try to pay, for some odd reason.

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