about

My name is Julia

things change. sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. that's how life is. i'm almost 16 and i make mistakes just like any other person. i'm far from perfect. i love to act, sing, dance and do anything involved with the arts. i really want to learn to play the guitar and i plan to learn. i play tennis but it's only to pass the time. i write poetry and lately i've been reading alot. i'm really goofy and i like to make people smile and i love to laugh. i don't trust that easily and i love even lighter. i don't believe that anyone is better than anyone. i've been going through a tough time lately and i've been confused about alot. i have my best friends and besides them i don't care what other people think. i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him. we can get through anything. i don't hate. sometimes love. and always smile. don't judge me before you get to know me. i'm loud and will make you laugh.

I also love to give and get advice. I believe that people should come together and help you to get by. But always remmeber, advice is help. You are the only one that can make a final desision. I would love to help you with anything as long as you respect me and I'll return the same respect.

advice

I'm 15/f sophmore, let me start off by saying I'm straight. I Love guys! I think they are the hottest thing on the planet! However... there is this one older girl on my volleyball team who's a junior and well, all of the sudden I'm looking at her longer, can't get her out of my head the whole nine yards. Here's my question: WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?! I don't like girls. It's just her and it's screwing with my head. Someone help...

p.s. please don't say "seek help immediatley or something like that...please."

Thanks,
Thoroughly confused

Well here's the thing. I'm also around your age and it's normal for that stuff to happen. However, it's not normal to not question your sexuality once. Whether people want to admit it our not, everyone goes through a time where they really are unsure about themselves. Did you ever think that maybe you could be bi-curious? This doesn't mean that you're a lesbian or that you like girls, it jsut means your curious about what it could be like. I mean it could be a phase, or your body could be telling you something. If I were you, I really wouldn't worry about it. It's probably just confusion tha comes along with being a teenager. You'll get through it. Don't let it get to you. Let me know how it works out. I'm free on email and AIM. Also check out my column!

Signed,
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