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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
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ignore it. ive had that happen to me accept people gossiped about me RIGHT in front of me! just ignore them. dont make eye contact. and if they say it right in front of you, act like you cant hear them. because if you say ANYTHING then they'll tell that ur annoyed and they'll do it more and more. just ignore them and pretend they are invisible. and if sum1 asks you about sumthin like that on AIM etc..just say u dont have an opinion
hope i help
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I recently asked the question about how my guy friend and his girl broke up and how I wanted to be there for him. Well he asked me to help, and today I tried to talk to him about it. I said do you and her now have an undertanding? he was like yea. I said so are you ok? and he goes it sucks but I'll live.. I have to go. Then leaves. What the hell? Im trying to help like he asked me to and then he leaves? Whats his problem? Should I leave him alone or say something? (link)
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hez still apparently a little sore about the breakup. you shouldnt take anything like that offensivly because he probably didnt even realize what he did. if you want to be a good friend..be there when he needs someone to talk to, but dont pressure him. he'll open up to you when he's ready. but until them, just give him constant support.
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well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz (link)
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hello! !yes u like him! apparently you really have feelings for this guy..which is perfectly okay. however he might have given up hope of you liking him and moved on. try talking to him and flirting with him and then you'll be able to tell if he still likes you.
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so my friend seem tyo hate me and came up with 170 things they disliked about me i know i should just leave them but my friendship with them has existed for over a year and its hard to make new friends this far in the year so im trying to be better and more normasl but cant they just accept me for what and who i am i think that if i can at least try to keep the friendship in tact then so should they i just want 3 things in life: acceptance friendship and to never be lied to if i have not lied to them unless its really stupid like ive been to mars but honesty i wish theied just accept me
long story short how do i fix the friendships.
Solemnstar (link)
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i know it might be hard to find friends at your school..but do you really want ur friends to be talking behind your back and coming up with reasons why they DONT LIKE YOU? thats not friendly at all. i can assure you that there are better people out there who can really be your friend and not treat you like your current "friends" do. you dont deserve that kind of friendship. you deserve to be respected and accepted and the people who dont accept you for who you are dont deserve to be your friends.
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