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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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Well, I see many possible explanations. If he says he won't date you because he's bad, he's either saying that because he doesn't like you and doesn't want it to hurt you, OR he likes you, and doesn't know what to do, so he says he's bad, just for a false excuse. OR he really is a bad guy. These are just possibilities, its up to you to interpret weather he means what he says or not. If possible, investigate what he means by "bad" He may have problems, and wants to keep you out of them. Try to talk about why he considers himself bad. His judgement upon himself might be biased. Well, go with your instincts. Look into the soul doorway. I hope this helps. I'm not too good with relationships as I have problems of my own.
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Okay, I'm just going to start off by saying that this will be a little long so please bear with me :) Oh and this might seem totally materialistic and shallow but I can't help it, its really a problem for me.
I'm 14 and I'm seriously depressed. Here's the problem: I'm poor.. Not 'can't eat three meals a day' poor. Just 'can't afford a car' poor. Like middle class. Not that I care much about these things but everyone at my school does. My dad gets like a very normal salary but that's not enough so my mom has to work too. Together they put enough money for me to go this really good school. The thing is, the school fee is REALLY high, for people like me I mean. So only rich kids go there. So my parents own like this little apartment where we live, and they can buy me fancy clothes and stuff (not branded but not that its a problem) and we can eat out once in a while. But we just can't afford a car. And that's why I have no friends at school. Everyone there is rich, and has a car. I'm not and I can't afford one. So all my classmates are really mean to me. They don't talk much about money but that's why they don't like me. Shallow, I know, but what can I do? The guys totally ignore me and when they talk they're really mean. The girls act like they're my friends but they bitch about me all the time and they only call me when they need something done. I try so hard to fit in but I'm afraid I never will.. I can't become rich just to get friends. That wouldn't be real friendship. Is money all that matters? If so, will I always be alone in life? I'm sure I'll never ever get a boyfriend but I reaally want a friend :( And since I'm focusing so much on this my grades are dropping.. I used to top the class but now these mean girls do. I'm afraid I'm letting my parents down now too.. what do I do? Please don't make rude comments, reply to me only if you really want to help. Thanks in advance :) (link)
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Sometimes its not good to fit in, if you fit in, you probably won't be remembered as much. If they're that mean then they're not worth being your friends. I go to a poor public school. The people there even call me a poor bum: winters with no heat, low hot water, reposessed car, lost jobs an arrest, drugs, and a crazy uncle .BUT, I don't consider myself poor. I have everything I need, it may not be the best but its there. They don't understand your struggle. Its classism. Once you get to college, you'll most likely meet people who feel the same way and understand.
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I need to ask, is the world going to end in 2012? (link)
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I do not think it will end in 2012. We will never know an exact end date or year. Ideas and fake things like that spread very quickly in modern times. Then its used to make money, by exaggerating the idea and making books and movies to make money from it. There are many possibilities. Natural disasters and strange phenomena have been going on since the beginning. Humans have come close to extinction a few times in the far far past.
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