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Im a sophomore and this guy is a senior and for a week or two he would be eyeing me in the hallway and my friend is friends with his friend and so my friend told her friend to tell the guy that I thought he was hott, and he said he didnt know who I was so. So since then, nothing has happened so I am pretty much just letting it pass by. I thought maybe he would make a move or something since I thought maybe he thought i was hott or something since he kept looking at me. Now that break is over its kinda a new start so im not going to go out of my way to make this guy notice me again. Basically if i put myself out there and they dont respond then i move on, i dont bother wasting my time. But what do you think? Should I give up or keep trying? Anything would be great, thanks! (link)
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If you make the first move you are gonna have everything you want, he could just be nervous to talk to you cuz he does think your cute. But im telling you, go for it and ask him to hang out. Then your on easy street haha.
Good luck
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well ill start off simple
im 17, a guy... and if anything i try to hard to help people but this problem caught me off guard.
"She" is 17 very very pretty with a great mind and i think i like her in that way (although i try hard not to because i can see my self being hurt because she always does stuff like i am about to explain) she has a boyfreind and has had him for over a year now untill new years eve when she kissed his brother... HIS BROTHER!!! its none of my buisness to get into her relationship life BUT HIS BROTHER!?!? its because i think i love her that i want to help her, iv told her before that i like her but i think that she thinks that i'v gone off her a bit (i havent) anyway she explained it to me like this..
*after i kept asking who she was texting* she addmitted it was her bf's brother and i asked why so much smiling while you text? she told me the story of how she was drunk and he started it. and its the first day back at college today and all i thought about what why does she love to live so closley with her bf and then start teasing and even having sex with other guys she hardly knows. though i am complaining about her being like this towards other people i am not exactly perfect... for last year, we kinda had a thing going she came round my house to do some course work or so i thought and she kissed me out of no were so i got really nervous (like i allways do) and i got confused and didnt want to tell her no but she really tried it on that day. (i realised at the time it was wrong but i was lonely and surprised at what she was doing) after that i got really depressed for like a week because of what we were doing. i told her how i felt and we both started crying about it.. anyway i blew my chance for her then which is what i want now because, although shes an amazing freind it wouldnt work out for me at all if we were to take our relationship further because i wouldnt be able to trust her ANYWAY i got that off my chest now please help me to try and help her realise what it is shes doing! she cant be that dense can she?!? seriously..
major thanks in advance. i'll give feedback on every answer like i allways do (link)
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Im not trying to be a dick or anything.
Im telling you, used to be nice guy, aka me to nice guy. Walk away! Ive been down the same exact trail and it only leads to a hole of self hate and pity. The girl your talking about isnt the friend you think, shes exactly the same as the girl i used to know. She wants nothing more than to make you feel like shit. She will lead you on until you ask her out then she will throw it in your face and go back to her ex. Its really not worth it, my friends told me to stay away but no, i thought i could maybe be the one to tame her. I thought wrong, she made me hate myself so much that i dumped my girl friend cuz i didnt think i was good enough for her. Now my ex hates me and i hate the other girl. Please take my advice and run the other way. Good luck whatever your decision is, if you need anything which you probly will just IM me and xXTryin HardXx. Good luck man.
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when a guy that you like askes u out what do u say? (link)
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Id say yes, you could have something great with that person. If you really like him than go for it, as for what to say literaly i cant help ya haha cuz it depends on what he says and how he asks. Just go with the flow and it will all work out. I had the same problem and all i have to do is stop thinkin so much haha. Good luck
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16/f.
im scared of people like in gangs in stuff or people who could beat me up. but i don't get any dignanty if i let them walk all over me and im tired of taking their crap. i want to be able to do or say anything i want[nothing stupid of course]. and i am going to do that, but do you think those people will beat me up or shoot me? (link)
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You cant be afraid of these people all your life, I have been doing mixed martal arts for a year and a half and it adds a new balance to your life. When you look at people with confidence and skill the equation is totally different. I know two ways to break a mans arm or snap his neck if he goes to grab me. Learning these simple moves and just lifting some weights once in a while gives you so much. Plus, I enjoy mixed martial arts so much that im entering in tournaments.
Im not telling you to go look for trouble, but if it comes your way you will know what to do.
I hope i helped, and if you need any information just IM me at xxtryinhardxx or email me at bearpierro@yahoo.com.
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