I am 16, i used to be a funny, cool guy that everyone liked. i started getting made fun of alot back when i was like 13 and 14, and it really messed me up. I care so much about what someone is gonna say if i say something funny or what comment i made. I have become so insecure, and i really have lost my old personality. Iv never felt shy in group situations , but after getting fucked with so much i feel super vulnerable to everything someone says to me. Now there are times when my outgoing,confident, fun personality comes out, and i seriously love it. But after 10- 15 minutes, i start thinking too much and start supressing my personality again, leading to insecurity and depression. If anyone knows any type of guide or hypnosis or whatever, im willing to try it. But im just tired of this and i want to feel free and open again, I feel locked inside of my mind
Ive been in your situation before and i was pretty shy but then there are somedays where i say fuck it and i just do me, try and find a girlfriend to express your love too publicly then you might become less shy, im telling you this because this is what happend to me, you start not caring what other people think once you got a person that can distract you, and if it dosent work try slowly gaining in that outgoing side like start talking and keeping your friends at your side, it all takes time but the one thing you should try and avoid is like showing every one you shy because then you might be lables as that, so try and be outgoing fuck what anyone says, just give it a shot.
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Me and my rother and his friends all have the same lunch periods.So Ill go and sit with them.But theres this one guy I think is cute and I catch him staring at me alot.
For example today when I was sitting there within five minutes Ive caught him staring at metwice.
And when ever I think about him I get this wierd feeling in my stomach and heart.
I think you are starting to like him you should start talking to him or be friends with him
Sincerely Rey Rincon
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