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I'm a freshman this year. I am very social. But I will admit more so outside of school. I don't like to talk a lot at school I guess. Well I was wondering how people make friends with upperclassmen..? I am very comfortable within my grade I will talk to anyone in my own grade just not in others. I guess you could say I get kind of intimidated. How do girls make friends with guys that are like seniors? How is it done... Lol. How can I talk to them without them thinking 'stupid freshman'. (link)
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first off not all seniors judge you by your grade, in fact some seniors love freshmans :) and 2nd, just be yourself talk to them like you do to your freshman friends, we seniors are just like you :P i mean we're only like 3 years older. Acting like someone else will only make us think stupid freshman xP
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Ok I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 weeks and we really like each other. Like he'll call me beautiful in front of his friends and is really nice. Buthe can be...... Weird around his friends. An I mean really wierd. Like they'll be punching each other and being very weird. But the real problem is I only have one class with him and that's band. By afterwards else have lunch together. By everyone says that he flirts with slot of girls and really flirts in his gym idk hat to do can Simone please help I really love him. (link)
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Well first off you know him, do you think he'd do that to you? and if its bothering you, you should just ask him, I know he might get mad, or something but its bothering you and your getting hurt by something thing that may or may not be true, don't hang around the bush trying to figure it out, it won't solve anything, communicating and trust is a big part of a relationship, have a serious talk about it, i hope that helped.
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I've worked at a restaurant for 18 months now. I have liked this guy,erik but i asked him out twice before and he made up excuses, so i gave up on him and stopped trying. the chefs (john and nick)know i like him and they all tell me he likes me too.they make jokes about us getting married, and its funny, and me and erik laugh about it seems to be flirty and make jokes ourselves but it just reminds me how much i like him and how i need to get over it.
last night i went out in the parking lot talking with john and nick and there was balloons all over my car. the balloons all had messy guy hand writing on them saying "i love you" "you complete me" "go out with me" "to ashley (me), love erik"... and i got so excited and happy. till the guys starting laughing, claiming that it wasnt them, but i know for a fact it was because john is religious and if you ask him to "swear to god"...he wont lie..and he wouldnt say it. i called erik double checking and he says he didnt do it.
i dont wanna tell the guys that i cried on the way home about it because i work with all guys and i dont want things between me and erik to be weird if he knows i got really upset about it.but it seriously got my hopes set so high then crashed down.i took it really personal. they play jokes on me all the time and i never do anything back. i know they care about me and they wouldnt do anything to hurt me.
i want to prank them back to let them know they can't mess with me like that anymore because i dont feel talking would help.
Any ideas for pranks?
or should i say something to john and nick
should i give up on erik as well if he seems so un-interested in dating me?
sorry its long and a lot of questions, thank you so much. (link)
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I think talking to nick and john is the best way to tell them how you feel about this, they seem like caring people and so they'll listen :) and yes I think you should try to get over him, hes not intrested so you really can't do anything about it :/ sorry..
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