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15/f. i'm sorry if this is confusing or long, but i feel so helpless and i have no idea what to do. every year my school has a 9th grade assessment. it is a really big project that takes about 2-3 monthes to complete, and you need to be in groups of 4 people ONLY. here is my problem. i had a group with two of my other friends. we all agreed, but then that day one of them texted me saying that they found two other people to work with. so i was stuck alone. i asked my other friend jenn if i could be with her and kelly, but they thought they were with two other people. it turns out that they thought that the two other girls that they were suppose to be with found other people, so i was in a group with jenn and kelly. we then found another member to make four. but then today jenn told me that her and kelly were going to be in a group with the two girls that they were suppose to be with in the first place. now i'm stuck again!
i've asked basically EVERYBODY, and everyone already has a group. the problem is that you need to sign up in groups by monday. i know i could go to the teacher that is organizing the project, but them he would put me with the losers that didn't have a group and i'll end up failing the project. i don't want to be in a group with just ANYBODY because this project and huge and if you fail it you have to go to summer school.
this is making me so upset to be ditched TWICE. i feel like i have no friends now. i feel like i'm about to cry. what am i suppose to do.
i know this was long, but it has really been bothering me so any adivice will really help me.
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Ask if you can work on your own or work with the losers and say to your friends you were forced to and they were going to give you the answers.
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I need help! I asked out this girl and now we go out. but she is always shy. i need advice to make her not so shy. Or things we can talk about in lunch or bus. (link)
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She needs to be comfortable around you and for her to feel comfortable she needs to trust you and for her to trust you she needs time.
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Well this girl I work with has been friends with me for the time I've worked there, which is almost a year. I have a boyfriend I have been dating for a year and a half. Now me and him had some hard times when I first started working there. Note: He works with me too. But things are better now and that is ironically causing the problem. My friend was always wanting me and him to break up. Her reasons were that she thought he is an ass and is going to do nothing but hurt me. He is very flirtatious and she goes to school with him and has supposedly seen him flirt with other girls. She likes to think of herself as a watch out for me, since I dont go to his school, and cant see what he does when I'm not around. Problem is... I never asked her to do that, and everything she tries to bring to my attention is something not worth making a big deal in the first place. Like this girl I know he is friends with put her arm around him and walked him to class and he told me about it. Later that night at work she goes up to me and says, "Your boyfriend had this girl ALL over him." I asked her to elaborate and she was said that she had her arm around him and that I should watch out. I was completely annoyed because it wasn't even a big deal and it seems like she is out to break us up. Maybe she is just jealous that I have someone... or maybe she feels like we don't hang out much because I have a boyfriend. Whatever the case, what should I do about this because I am sick and tired of her trying to get me all upset over stuff between me and him that isnt even a big deal. I'm a senior this year and then my boyfriend and me are moving after highschool, so we both don't need to deal with all this high school drama. Should I stop being friends with her? Should I confront her? If so, what should I say? I don't want to start anything because I work with her, so if I say something it has to be discreet and to the point. Any suggestions?
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Say to her thanks for looking out for me and making sure he isn't cheating but i trust him 100% and i know he wouldn't cheat on me (tell her that if you trust him).
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Guys laugh at me and are really mean to me and don’t treat me well at all. It’s because I talk weird, I’m too opinionated, I have a brutal sense of humor, and I only listen to musicals and Sondheim……
For example, they always snicker whenever it’s time for PE….I’m the most not-athletic person in my whole class. I can’t even run a mile. I was telling my friend about how un-athletic I am, and this guy overheard and goes, “Yeah, you sure are.”
And when we were working in groups, and this guy whispered to the other girl in my group, “do you actually expect her to do anything?”
Lots of stuff like that every day. And more,
And I’m not being paranoid. I gave it the benefit of the doubt; but when I discovered that half of the guys blocked me on AIM, it’s pretty obvious that the guys hate me.
I know I should be strong and I shouldn’t care about what those morons think of me, but it still hurts. I bet they wish they could make fun of my body as well, but fortunately, I’m not overweight, and I don’t have any really ugly features that they could laugh at.
It really, REALLY hurts my feelings. I know I shouldn’t be so sensitive, but it makes me feel awful.
What should I do? I can’t tell a teacher, that would only decrease my reputation. And my school counselor doesn’t know squat.
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I don't really know what to say sorry, except that why don't you try to find out why the dislike you or you can just ignore them completely and be brave then eventually they will go and bug someone else.
Sorry i couldn't be more help.
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My social studies teacher hates me. He's the leader of a club for gay pride. I don't think that he's gay, he says that he's married. Ever since the beginning of the year, he's always been crabby but only to me. I mean, once we were working on a worksheet that he said we could work in groups on, and he comes over to me and yells at me and tells me to go and work alone in the hall, but I wasn't doing anything bad. And once I called someone a fag (I was just kidding, no one actually means what they say, you know what I mean?). He gave me 2 detentions and tried to get me suspended, but the principal didn't let him. My teacher has probably heard me telling gay jokes and saying stuff about gay people. What can I do to deal with this or make it stop. I hate him because he's nice to everyone else but it's only me that he gets mad at. (link)
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I would say when you next have your social studies lesson go in and do nothing wrong and i mean nothing then i would either tell your principal or your mom that you are getting harrassed, make sure you have witness's.
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I have a great job & my supervisor is amazingly nice. She has a younger brother who also works in our store (he's 19, i'm 18) and me and him have become close. He recently told me he wants to be more than friends and I was excited. My supervisor is actually supportive about all of this. The thing is, I'm scared of what would happen if we broke up and weren't on good terms. I don't want to jeopardize my job and my supervisors opinion of me but I really like this guy. (link)
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If your really worried then ask your supervisor if it would jeopardize your job being with him and then breaking up.
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Hi, I gotten a job and Like it. there guy there he very nice and I hard he is funny. so now I am not in High school anymore hoply be different then hig school. i want know how and make shure i be come friend with this guy how to be friendly and not lead him on and think I am crushing on him. I don't want runie it. (link)
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Have a party or something and invite him so it won't look like that you are crushing on him.
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