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me and my best friend work for my church .. we are like the altar serving coordinators and we are in the office 3 days a week. hes a little smarter than me and always seems to take charge, he even calls me "his assistant." i dont like this because i wanna have as much responsibility as he does. i cant talk to him about it, hes so passionate about this and he will get so mad at me. idk what to do .. i just wanna feel like im doing something, and helping. (link)
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This guy seems like he's a little bossy. When you two first started, did you ever try and take charge? Maybe in the beginning he just decided to be the "leader" because no one else was. Some people just can't stand not having someone taking charge. However, if he is really passionate about this job, maybe you should just let him have this thing, and let him be in charge. Don't care so much about "being under him". In fact, it's not that he's the one in charge, it's just you're letting him organize everything and you're not caring. You never know, maybe he does things that he hates with you, just so that you're happy. Should you ruin your friendship just over this? If he's only like this at work, then I think you should let it slide and don't say anything. If he's like this all of the time, then I think you should tell him how you feel.
If you don't tell him anything about the way he acts at work, just try doing more things, like volunteering to do this and that at work. If you're mad about not doing as much as him, then make it you're business to know what's going on and doing as much as him. He'll see after a while that you do do quite a bit of work at work, however, he could react differently to this situation. Maybe he really loves being in charge and might feel that his place is being taken by you. If you get to that point, maybe it'll be safe to talk to him about it.
I think though, that if he's really passionate about this, just let it go, and don't let it get to you. Besides, many people would LOVE, to have a job and not have to do as much work as the others around them.
Good luck & I hope I helped.
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Ok so i really wanted to go to this really good, expensive private high school for years now and my friend that just moved away is going there, but my best friend isn't going there. I don't really want to wear a uniform and i kind of want to go to a public school because if i went to a religious school would there be any relationships? I'm so confused! (link)
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Once you get the facts, it won't be confusing at all. Private school is almost exactly the same...Except for the uniforms, maybe a few more and stricter rules, the price of attending, and perhaps smaller classes. If none of those things bother you, then you could go to that private school. On TV, private religious schools look so strict, nuns stand around you with rulers ready to beat you, and no one can talk...etc. In real life, it really is nothing like that-- at all. Students have relationships for sure. The only questions I guess left to ask yourself are, is changing schools and leaving your best friend the best idea(for your sake)? How badly do you want to this private school? If you do choose to go to the private school, good luck, and I'm sure that despite leaving your best friend, you're going to make many other new ones. On the other hand, if you decided to stay with public, you can be happy that you're still with your best friend, in an environment you know so well. You can think about all the money you saved by not going there. Well I hope everything works out, and whatever choice you make, it will be the right one for you.
-Princez Peach
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I have a large group of really close friends. Two who some would say are the most popular are starting to be really badly bullied by this jelous cow with no real friends. She has been being horrible to them for a long time, but now things are getting nasty. One of these two friends today got really badly shouted, e.c.t at, punched in the back ( which is really bad for her, as she has a bad spine and needs to wear a back brace) and her hair pulled so badly, I mean really pulled. In the shouting, she insulted her so much as well- calling her a jewish bitch and so on. All my other friends and I did all we could to break up the conflict and she would have done much more if we weren't there. I have a feeling this is going to get much worse. We have told the teachers, but this is going to make her so angry. This is all over nothing, simply them being popular. Both friends were left crying. For ages we have ran away whenever we have seen them ( she has her gang). What can I do to stop this from getting worse? Also, the other friend has a bad self image (even though boys think she is best looking in the school) and has been a cutter in the past. What can I do to help my friends and stop the bullying? (link)
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I say that you should definetly tell a teacher or some adult (if you haven't already). I know that it can be hard because then the bully will get really mad if you tell a teacher, but this is one of the best ways to try and solve this. If you tell a teacher, the bully is probably going to be suspended or maybe if it gets worse expelled from your school. If you and your friends don't tell anybody, you are all going to be living in fear...fear for your two friends, and you will be scared everytime the bully is near. These kind of situations could go on for ages, so it wouldn't be very fun if all of you spent your whole year trying to figure out ways to stop the bullying. So tell somebody...a teacher,an adult or even you parents. I hope everything goes well!
~PrincezPeach~ ;)
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