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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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I don't have a boyfriend, I like this guy named Jimmy my friend and I met him at the pool. He was talking to us he was nice,and flirty. He talked to me first so i thought he liked me but, he told this other girl that he was hanging with (she was hanging with us two) that he thought my friend was cute. So..he likes her, and we are friends on My space now(he added me) he asked me if she liked me, i said no because she has a boy friend. So i don't know what to do. I really want a boyfriend, but i can't find one. My friend told me that i should stop looking the right guy will find me when the time is right. So ...ugg i don't know what to do. help??

I still think you should talk to the guy to met at the pool. Even if he does like your friend, he doesn't have a chance with her, because she has a bf. So I say you give it a try ! Try & start talking to him, start a conversation, and see where that goes.

I wish you the best of luck ! If you need anything else, just drop it in my inbox. [:

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Hi my names Joette and Im 14 and a female. Theres this guy Ben at my schoool. Weve been extremely close since kindergarten. but now that I have a boyfriend it seems like our friendship has gone down the drain and that all we do when we talk is argue now. What should I do? THANX

I highly suggest you talk to him about it. If you dont tell him how you feel about your friendship, he won't just guess it on his own. Sit down , and just tell him everything you feel, and tell him how you want it to be like old times..

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what does it mean when a guy asks you if you have a bfriend then tells you that he is single as well.

will a guy lie about liking you.

Yeah guy tend to lie about liking you, all guys do it.

& when he asks that it usually means he's interested, b/c he would of never asked if he wasn't.

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Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (:

I deffinatley think you should tell him. I mean if you don't tell him how will he ever know, and how will YOU ever know if he feels the same back. There is no good in holding things in, all it does it bother, and stress you out. Well as I can see, you & him are pretty close, seems like you're pretty open when you talk about serious things, as you have in the past.

I, personally think it's easier to talk to someone on MSN, when you're talking about serious stuff, but it's so much better when you say it in person. It really won't change anything, whether it's in person or not. It pretty much depends on the person you are.

The best way to tell him is if you guys are talking about relationships & stuff. You should bring up something about who he likes, and then if you get a chance, let him know what you feel. Maybe you should right him a note, or even email him, that way you don't feel that akward. Which ever way you choose, I wish you the best of luck. & I hope it goes well for you ! :]

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Well I was with this guy for a few months. We then just stopped talking in around January? And I had a feeling that he wanted to break up with me. See what I don't get it that he didn't say anything. He started avoiding me and going opposite directions I was going. If I was talking to one of his friends he would walk away quickly. Cover his face, etc. So then one day, me and my friend started talking about how he is kinda too "emotional" (This was before she knew we kinda broke up) and then we kinda were talking to him about how he should kinda tough up and stuff. But I doubt he took it seriously. So a month or two later, I apologized (Even though I did nothing and I hate holding grudges though I was never mad at him and I don't want anyone hating on me...)and he didn't even apologize... And when I apologized I meant if we could be friends. But then I didn't say anything more. After that, I figured maybe we could start talking just like regular friends. But nope, he still avoids me , etc. So then maybe a month later, I said if we could just be friends and stuff... And he was just like "sure...". BUT he still avoids me and everything. And I really dont get it. I don't want this to happen for like years. He's been doing this to me for like what. Half a year? And I'm sick of always apologizing because he doesn't even. It's like as if I was supposed to apologize to him. So any advice how this whole avoiding this could stop? Cause I never do avoid or anything like that. Much thanks !

Honestly, I think you should stop apoligizing. Act like he is acting towards you, yeah it might be hard for you. But I can garuntee that after he sees that you are avodiding him, he will probably come and talk to you. He's trying to act like he can be without talking to you, & all of that. Well make it seem like you can be without him, and make him feel like crap. There is no reason he should be avoiding you, you did nothing wrong. So as a come back, do the exact same back. I highly suggest you don't keep trying to apolize, b/c then he's going to think that he has some control over you..

Good Luck !

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