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Hi I am Amanda i am about 16 years of age and i have brown hair origionally but i died it blonde... i have brown eyes... i am about 5'3" and about 107 pounds. For all you georgeous men out there... im sorry im taken!*love u Bryan* and very much in love! and ladies im always here to help you on your guy problem... trust me i know what they are like!! haha (guys you know im here for you too... ive got a girls mind! its the best way to figure out your girls!) if you would like to know more about me you can IM me!
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my boyfriend asked me if i ever had an orgasim while having sex w him and i said no and i dont even know, is it wrong to not have an orgasim and how do you even know if your having one or not (link)
no its not wrong... a lot of girls have had sex a lot of times and never had an orgasm... when you have one its just a really good feeling sometimes your toes will go numb or your legs will shake... different things happen to different people... but no its not wrong not to have one dont ever think it is... some girls will never have one in their lifetime. but yes you know when your having one.... but sometimes it takes a while with people... dont worrie its not wrong! hope i helped


whats a straightedge? (link)
no idea sorry!


my friend is taking a drug test and he wants to know how long it takes certain dugs to clear out from his body and not show up on the drug test (link)
the only thing i know is marajuana will take about a month to get out of your system i dont know about any other drugs... sorry hope i helped!


I have english during 6th period, it use to be my favorite class until some stuff happened. First off my xbf is going out with this girl Karan in my english class and everyone thinks I hate her for that. I really dont but I dont know how to let everyone else know that I dont hate her and her know. Second thing is Im not a virgan anymore and I dont brag about losing it but this guy in my english class, Jason things I am a virgan so now half of the people in my class call me a "virgan miget" because Im a virgan and short and I cant take it anymore, I tired to ignore it but that doesn't always work so if you can help me please help me. (link)
what you should do is when they say something just turn around and say something like "goes to show how much you know" or something like it... so your not exactly bragging but your making them feel stupid cuz they are wrong but your not saying oh im not a virgin kinda thing.... just find somthing to say abck... but ignoring it is the best thing.... but if you cant ignore them... give them a taste of their own medicine!!! hope i helped. and just straight up tell them that you dont hate her... try to talk to her and be really nice! itll show them you dont hate her!


i think i did the wrong category but o well.

it starts like this: i live with my aunt now and its ok but sometimes i wish i was with my mom, but my mom left me when i was 2 and my dad has always been in jail. I dont remember my parents at all. i want to talk to them but i dont know where either of them all, and everytime people mention "mom" or "dad" i get sad and i want to cry. i have no memory of them and i dont know where they are. Any Advice on trying to get over it?

~Empty Space~

i am also a columnist but this time i need help from some1 else. (link)
i cant say i have been exactly where you have been... but my mom did walk out on me when i was six... but i did end up seeing her again and now i live with ehr and dont talk to my dad.... sit down with your aunt and talk to her about it... im really sorry... i know what its like not to have parents around... i was living with my grandparents for a while not knowing where my mom or dad were... i now live with my mom and my dad lives in another state... i dont talk to my dad but being with my mom is jsut great... and to tell you the truth just because your mom is your birth mother doesnt mean shes really a mother... a mother is someone who is there for you and who cares for you and takes care of you... and thats what your aunt is. i hope i could help you! im really sorry i know its hard


I think the way I come off to people is just mean and that I don't like anyone. Today I heard some kid say (about me) "Yeah, she hates everyone" and that is not true. I tend to tell people to shut up and I guess I'm not the nicest person... so how do I begin to change? I don't want to seem a rude, hateful person anymore! (link)
just think before you speak... before you come off and yell SHUTUP! think about it and be like can you please be quiet... say hi to people that you dont usually... all you really can do is try!


hey im a good writer and all but im havin trouble writing a poem to my friend. I wrote it out in a paragraph saying

"I've been doing some thinking. This may sound a little akward but I'm sorry I know your right. I guess I haven't been using my head so greatly these past few weeks. I'm happy to finally know I actually have someone who will give me helpful advice and a shoulder to cry on. When I need it. I guess we can thank those summer night chats with out those I guess we really wouldn't have all those memories and inside jokes made.
Thanks for being there for me"

I know if I work for hours I can get it but I can't seem to get it out. Can someone write a poem for me? or should I just leave it as it is and explain that in a paragraph form and not make any changes. I'm not sure what to do... thanks for helping if you do.

(P.S. he writes as well)
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Listen im not going to write you a poem.... that would be wrong... you need to write from your heart.... it may take you 2 hours or 2 days but what you need to do is write from the heart.... jsut write all your feelings down dont let anything stop you... the best poems come from your true feelings... trust me i have been writing poems for years... and they are all about love and they are poems i wrote from the heart... the ones i did have to think hard about werent as good as the ones that came from my heart.




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