my name is jen. i love to shop pretty much like every store. I live for my cell and iPod. i
Gender: Female
Location: massachusetts
Age: 14
Member Since: December 9, 2005
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Ok, im 13/F and im semi-cool. What I mean is the guys like me as a friend and stuff and Im never alone on a slow dance. I also hang out with the popular kids. See but people say im too nice and too smart and I find that lots of people are calling me a looser behind my back. I know I shouldnt care but it does affect me. All my clothes are brand name and Ive never done anything to the people "above" me. This one girl (shes in top 3) has started alotta rumors about me and even though everyone at school thinks I dont mind so they ALL play along it still hurts. Im really good friends with all the guys and I was wondering what I could do to well........be more popular. (Please no U shouldnt care or stuff like that, I already know that but I do so ya) (link)
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you seem like a really nice girl. you shouldnt care what anyone thinks if you havent done anything. you seem to have a lot friends, guys like you, & it seems like you have a good life ignore that girl who starting rumors. girls are too overdramatic & she is probally just jealous if people are gonna listen to stupid rumors then you shouldnt be friends with them in the first place
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there's this boy in my class that i really really like and he has been buying me my favorite drink and snack when he stops at the store before he come to school everyday for a while now. he's really sweet and cute but i don't know if he's just being friendly or he really likes me. i really like him but i'm afraid to ask him out and i don't know how to flirt. all of the girls in my class say that we'd make a good couple and i think are that they might try to hook us up (not that i think that that's a bad thing). i get really shy and nevous around him. what can i do i really really like him! (link)
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maybe hes waiting for you to make the first move talk to him & see what he likes, ask him to go to a movie
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I don't attract guys at all. It's been said that I'm a lesbian (which I'm not), and I have an extremely brutal (but with purpose...I don't just say "Fuck the world" for no reason and think it's funny) sense of humor and wear all black. Are these turn-offs? But I'm a nice person. Though I can be a little morbid, I'm generally pretty friendly, I consider others' feelings, and I try to make friends, but nobody at my school wants to be around me. It's inevitable someone will say "Marian, I REALLY wanna sit next to Joe Shmoe. Can you move over?" at least twice a day. I just hate that. Whenever we have to choose partners/teams in gym, I'm always the last person. I feel so lonely, I cry sometimes in the locker room when nobody is around. There's only 1 friend of mine that's a guy who actually appreciates me for who I am, and I now have such a huge crush on him. I don't want to sound conceited at all, but I think I'm a nice-looking person, so that eliminates the idea that guys might not like me because of my looks. Does anyone understand? How can I make more friends? Even though he doesn't like me back in the same way, should I tell this boy I like him, and if so, how?
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It seems that its not you at all pretty much. Im guessing that you are stereo typed as like the dark .. stay away from that person. Im on the other side.. im stereo typed as a "prep" by like all the rockers and such. I certainly dont want to be labled but everyone is. Im nice to most of the "rocker" type clique. I was talking to one of them ... and she was pretty much the leader of her whole group. I talked her into showing up to school all preppy. She didnt have any clothes so I let her borrow some. When she walked in ... everyone was shocked. Underneath her dark clothes, she was gorgeous. Maybe you should shock everyone bye showing up to school in more preppy clothing. Show people who you want to be and shock your school. Shock your crush. He might see your inner beauty by showing that you are happy. No offense but maybe the reason boys may have not approached you is because of what you wear. I wouldnt approach someone that is all dark and quiet ... that tends to draw people farther away.
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Ok...
there is this guy that i like. and i he doesn't know that i like him at all. and i hunt with him. and were just friends. and i love him very much. how should i drop hints to him that i like him a lot. or what should i do???? (link)
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Get the courage to tell him. If you hang out with him alot then he might like you too. Life is short take chances you never know !
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Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys? (link)
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First of all, dont be so down on yourself saying your ugly and fat. Guys dont like listening to girls make fun of themselves. Build up your confidence. Guys dont like girls that are so down on themselves. Be yourself, dont hide under make up. If a guy cant like you for yourself then they have a problem cause no one should ever change themselves
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How do you overcome jealousy?
The guy i like (along with previous guys) look at pictures of girls and comment on how good/hott they look and it makes me extremly jealous and i always end up creating drama... how can i get over this??? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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Wow, that is EXACTLY what happens to me what i do is remember, theres a small chance that he will actually get them. And if you want to turn the tables do what he does (except with guys pictures) usually guys get annoyed with that as much as we do
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