Hi! I'm a 21 year old college student.
I currently have my AA in psychology and continuing my studies as a psychology major/human development minor. I've been giving advice to my friends for years. I consider advicenators as a way of using my schooling for the real world. So ask away!
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Okay i have been faithful to my boyfriend for almost a year now and he keeps saying I'm cheating when i never cheat. But i do what us to break up i can't keep putting up with him and not having a life but i want him to break up with me but i don't want to cheat i just want out that's all but i can't bring myself to break up with him
How do i make him break up with me without hurting him? (link)
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By being with him you're hurting yourself. Best thing to do is to pull him aside alone at a neutral place without too many people around and say something like "It hurts me to hear that you think I'm alwasycheating on you because I'm not. I don't like always defending myself because it's emotionally draining. When you always accuse me it makes me mad and I'm not happy. Trust is important in a relationship and since we don't have trust I can't be with you." Tell him how you feel. You will have to break up with him because if he thinks you're cheating and him and he still hasn't broken up with you chances are is that he's not going to. So take matters into your own hands!
Good Luck! ^_^
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help!! i want to talk to my crush but whenever i see him i get all nervous and scared how do i work up the nerve to approach him? and what do i talk about when i do talk to him?
thnks so much im so desperate for advice (link)
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Don't be nervous! He's a normal person like you and I! If I really want to talk to a crush, if he's in my class, I ask him to about the class and how he likes it, make some kind of joke about the teacher that way you show your humerous side and break the ice and soon you can start talking about other things. Another thing is if your nervous stand near him when talking with friends or waiting for class to start and just say nice weather or something like that. If he's a total stranger who you kinda know get a mutual friend and ask him/her to invite you in the convo with your crush
Good Luck! ^_^
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I get really nervous when I have to do a presentation in the front of the class (like many other students). I'm in college now and my dread about oral presentations is still fullforce. I will practice forever, but when I get up there, I never say what I want to and end up looking stupid. I have a presentation coming up and we can have flashcards with us, but what can I do to keep myself calm? Sometimes I get so nervous I sweat and feel like I'm going to pass out. What are some tips people use? Any advice would be appreciated, especially if you have this problem too! (link)
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The same thing happens to me! I feel so stupid when I start studdering and laughing nervously. My 3rd semester in college I had to take a speech class for my lower division preeq and I realized the best way to keep calm is to know your classmates! Once you talked to everyone you'll realize that a lot of people in your class have the same fear and you can be nervous together! When you know them and do a presentation you wont feel as nervous. When I also speak I look at the teacher so it's like I'm having a one-one convo. Hope that helps!
Good Luck ^_^
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Well lately I've had this crush(the whole year) and had finally gotten up the courage to tell him how I feel. But the exact same day I was about to tell him, he asked out another girl. I was really pissed because their personalities don't match whatsoever and they barely talk at all. Anyway, about a week after this happens I keep thinking they're not gonna last long. Then, on that saturday we were at BRH(baton rouge high) taking a placement test for next year an I meet this guy.
He is my friend's friend and she introduced us.
He was super sweet and mistaked me for someone else at first.( he asked if I was still datig someone... Which is kinda weird to ask someone of u haven't seen them in a while) but we talked for atleast 30 mind and I love him!
He talked to me more in those 30 mind than Kyle ever did (my other crush)
So I find myself day dreaming about him ( he kinda looks like Fred from YouTube) and I barely know him! So then realized that I won't see him until next fall!
My friend told emily(his friend) that I liked Him....but I didn't at the time an she comes up to me and starts calling me bitch an hoe (kinda Playfully) a she says he's off limits and now I probably have no chance of being his friend atmost gf. She prolly told him.
Well I need to know if I should tell Kyle now (even though he has a gf) or wait until I see James this fall.
It's really bugging me now.
Also how can I tell if Kyle likes me or is trying to make me jealous? And how can I get him to notice me more( and how to talk to him)
Sorry for the longness ( I'll rate high for whoever just reads this LOL)
All help will be greatly appreciated!!!
Thanks =] (link)
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Whoa! Do not tell Kyle your feelings just for the fact that as your friend you should respect his decision even if you don't approve of his gf and don't wait for him to break up either. My guy friend has been waiting for me to break up with my BF and it's been 4 years! LOL! So yeah! No sense in waiting. As for James. The reason that emily came at you like that is because she most likely likes him too and once she goes out with him you can't. Friends ex-boyfriends are off limits. So wait for James because he'll be available to flirt with and be friends with. If he talked to you for 30 mins then that means you're either cool or he's interested. He wouldn't have wasted his time if he wasn't.
Good Luck! ^_^
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