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hey. my name's amanda i'm 15 and a sophomore in high school, that's the only thing i'm putting on here ;]
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next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school. (link)
hey i've seen this same question like 5 times..not to be rude or anything, just letting you know: search for your question before you post next time, thanks mucho!! ;] if you need anything else drop one in my inbox!!

love always

xoxo amanda


ok so i went out with this guy for like 2 days. then he broke up with me and my best friend told me to go ask him out for her. i really regret asking him cuz theyve been going out for 2 months now. i still really like him and he said that if him and my bff broke up he would probably go out with me again. but my best friend said that if i ever go out with him again she would hate me. im afraid that if i go out with him again that he'll break up with me again and break my heart in pieces. i dont know if i should go out with him again.
please help!!
thanks in advance. =) (link)
hey the truth is, what you do is up to you. your basic options are:
1. forget about this guy because he's not worth losing a friendship
2. ignore your friend and go out with him *if* they break up

let me just give you some pointers:

1. your friend shouldn't act like this. if she cared enough about your friendship she wouldn't let a guy get in the way. it's wrong to hate someone over a silly thing like a guy, and it sounds like she's not being such a great friend right now.

2. this guy doesn't seem like he's worth all the trouble he's already putting you [and your friend] through, and he is being unloyal to your friend by talking about going out with his ex [you] while he is going out with his current girlfriend [your friend]. i think you should just simply forget about him and find yourself a guy that is perfect for you, not your friend too.

love always

xoxo amanda


I'm a really shy person, and that makes social things hard for me. People automatically assume I am prude and just don't talk to me. When people DO get to know me, they tell me that they are completley suprised and they can't believe they had never talked to me. Do any of you have suggustions on tips to be less shy? I'm really trying to overcome it (link)
hey i'm shy just like you. obviously you have a great personality underneath your shyness as people have told you, and they can't understand why you are hiding it. my suggestion is to open up a little more than you normally would to friends and acquaintences. tell them some things about you that you haven't told them before. talk to new people, who might not expect you to talk to them. once you expand your social network and get over your shyness and insecurities people won't assume that you are shy!

love always

xoxo amanda




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