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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
Oh, and ask me anything!
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i really neeed your advice:
who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved?
the person i first loved.
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ok im almost 17 and last night i had sex with no condom i live in Albany Oregon do any one have any tips on how long to wait to take a home test, any free clinics, and any other things.
please help me and my boyfriend need ur help.
Why are you already so worried? You just had sex last night, so calm down.
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I've had my period since I was 11 (16 now) and they haven't been getting regular. Sometimes I didn't get my period for 2 months at a time but I wasn't worried at all because I hadn't had sex. Since I was 14 I've been on the pill. Almost 2 months ago I had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but I havn't had my period in almost 3 months. I ually gain weight around my period but I'm concerned because of the missing of my period for a longer lenth of time. Now I'm getting worried because the pill is supposed to first of all prevent your chances of getting pregnant and second, keep you regular. Is it possible that I'm pregnant while on the pill and after using a condom? Thanks for your help.
If you've always had an irregular cycle, then it's not abnormal for it to be late. Seeing as how you used a condom and i'm assuming you haven't missed a pill, there isn't any reason for you to be concerned. If you don't get it within a month, take a home pregnancy test just to be on the safeside. You could take one now if you are that concerned about it. Remember, stress can play a huge factor in delayed periods, so try not to freak out to much.
Pregnancy is always a possibility, but I doubt you need to worry.
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13/f
My discharge smells TERRIBLE.
& im embarrassed by it. I take
showers daily, and im sick of
feeling dirty and stuff. Any
remedies that you make AT HOME
[so parents dont find outttt]
& is safe to put down there?
Depending on the discharge..
if it has a fishy smell, and isn't clear it could very well be a yeast infection. You can buy over the counter medicine for these at Rite Aid.
if it looks normal, then just make sure to keep showering daily. also, try keeping summer's eve wipes with you. pantiliners can be a life saver to. your 13, and that's the time when you really start developing, and dishcharge unfortunately comes along with it. we all just have to deal.
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I'm a 19 year old female. My fiancee and I have been sexually active for quite a while now and we've always had issues with his size. I'm a fairly petite woman and he's very well endowed. We use lubricant and we have foreplay for quite a while, yet sometimes I still bleed. We've tried putting me on top and it's less painful, but it's less pleasurable for me. Does anyone have any other ideas that I might have overlooked?
You have taken all the neccessary preparations needed, so there isn't much else you could do to make things less painful.
If you've been sexually active for a while, the pain should have subsided, and if you are still feeling discomfort and are bleeding, something may be wrong. Penis vs Petite is a huge issue when coming to enjoying sex, but it shouldn't be that much of a burden for you. Try seeing a doctor, that's probably your best bet.
Sorry I couldn't have helped more.
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13/f
does anyone know where to get cheap conair &revlon straighteners that work really good??? and can u please send me pictures of them so i know what your talking about? thanks in advance
i'm not sure if you a have or not, but if you want you can ask this question to ALL advice givers and get many more answers seeing as how i'm not an expert on straightners, someone out there may be though.
Sally's, RiteAid, or Walmart should have some nice, straightners for a good price.
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around my vagina, i usually get alot of these nasty ass pimples that seem so unormal. i've told one of my friends, and she said she doesn't get anything like that and that she thinks it's unormal. does anybody else get these huge ass pimples around their vagina anal area?? i feel like i'm the only one, and is there any way to treat them or something, to get rid of them??
--my vagina also smells bad, even after i wash it.
i wash it every day, but the smell doesnt seem to go away. i want to get a bikini wax too, but i'm afraid the waxer will think my vagina smells and she'll throw up...help please
some have body acne. if it's not actually inside of your vagina, i wouldn't worry to much. just make sure you clean really well down there. i'm sure you aren't the only one that has them. i wouldn't try putting acne medicine down there, just make sure you clean really well. try changing soaps as well, you may be having an allergic reaction to it.
as for the smell, ALL vaginas have a unique smell, and though you may think it stinks, it may just be you and paranoia. try using summer's eve. i wouldn't get a bikini wax just yet, try consulting a doctor or telling your mom about all the symptoms you are experiencing. she'll know what to do.
if you've had sex, are sexually active, or have done something sexual lately it very well could be an STD as most people here have mentioned. if you haven't ever been sexual, it could just be a yeast infection or a urinary tract infection.
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15/f. when ever i masturbate, i usually get an orgasim quick, like with in 2-3 minutes, but it only last fo like 20 seconds, maybe less, and then the feelign starts to drift away really quick. Is this normal? thanks in advance
yeah, it's completely normal.
some girls can orgasm much quicker than that, and others only last 5 or 6 seconds.
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What does it mean when a guy and girl have sex or she performs oral on him and he finishes fast because he says that he is "very excited" && we was gunna do it a second time but he couldnt get hard.
Does that mean anything?
Is there anyway that i can get it hard again?I really didnt do anything, i just sat there soo maybe i shoulda tried. But anyways, what does it mean?
Thankss
some guys.. or people i guess, can only orgasm once within a few hours. it's called having a low sex drive, and it deson't mean anything is wrong with you. he just needs a while before he can start up again.
you probably could get it hard again if you tried. but i wouldn't, because if he's not ready to go again, he won't be into it.
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do y0o get paid by doing this? just wondering.
get paid by doing what?
no you don't get paid by giving advice.
it's just to help people.
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i want a tounge peircing... can anyone give me liek about how much it would cost and like if you think i should get it or not.... i was going to get snake bite on my lip but my school wont let me.... so liek any advice on teh tounge ring?!
Why won't your school let you get a snake bite?-
I think it's so stupid when schools try to stop your individuality. Urgh.
I don't see a problem with getting your tongue pierced, if that's what you want. Just make sure you know all of the negative side effects that come with this piercing. [There are quite a few]
As for the price, it can range anywhere from
30-50 dollars depending on where you go.
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"and i want to have an orgasm, but how?" you didnt't answer that part of my question, sorry =/
"as for the orgasm, relax and don't think about it. let him be on top, and put both feet on his shoulders. he'll have to do all the work, and it may hurt a little, seeing as how he's pushing as far up in you as he can, but you'll orgasm. promise." i answered it, it just didn't show up on my column. if it doesn't look like it's been completely answered, click the "[xo]" in the right hand corner. anyways, no one can tell you how to have an orgasm. but hopefully what i did tell you will help you out some.
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hi does anyone know how to get htmls from your aim profiles to put on your xanga? i usede to know how but i totally forgot! thanks in advance ♥
i'm not sure how, but i'm sure the advice giver, coomersx3 could help you out. just leave her an inbox question telling her i sent you to her, and i'm sure she'll help you out.
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This is probably going to sound extremely stupid or weird, but I can't wear tampons. I really wish I could but I have to wear pads for a certain reason. Every time I wear tampons, they always make me feel really good. Sometimes I'll even get off from just wearing a tampon. My boyfriend will laugh at me for it, but I hate it. I mean its kinda a good thing but not really, ya know? It'll happen if I'm in public in a store just walking down an aisle & I'll start breathing really hard & moan a little, it's really embarrassing. I was just wondering if this happens to everyone, am I wearing the tampon wrong (I don't see how I could be though), or if it's just something that happens to me? Please help me out, I really hate pads!
Whit
I'm sorry, but I couldn't help but laugh at this. That must really suck, and I can't say i've ever heard of it happening to anyone before. I think maybe you are wearing it wrong. When you're wearing it, you shouldn't be able to feel it at all. It should be like you're wearing nothing. If you are wearing it correctly, try using a smaller size. [teen size maybe?] that could be the problem.
good luck, dear.
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okay so tmorrow me and my friend are having sex, its our third time and im still "tight" down there. i hate asking him if its in or him asking me. tips? and how long should he finger me before we start actually having sex. and i want to have an orgasm bc i hear it feels good. but how?
It's normal to still be tight seeing as how it's only been 3 times. Have him finger you for as long as it takes. If he can easily fit 2 fingers in you, then you should be ready to go. If not, keep going. The wetter you are, the better. Promise!. If you still are having a hard time, let him eat you out, that'll get you nice & wet.
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me and my boyfriends 1 year is coming up. our parents are actually letting us go to a concert out of town and stay in a hotel together! i'm so excited, buttt....
guys,
what sexy things can girls do to seduce a guy?
tips on good hand & blow jobs
tips on what to do while kissing, etc.
thanks a whole lot
Gosh, aren't you just a lucky girl.
Congratulations by the way. My 1 year was great, and I hope yours is too. =]
You can't really seduce a guy, unless he doens't want to do anything to begin with.
If you want to make him horny, there's plenty of stuff you can do.
Go to wikipedia and type in 'blowjob tips' or 'hanjob tips' or something along those lines, good luck.
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I've had my cell phone since august 2004. By now, it's pretty scratched and today it just stopped charging on the charger. The little thing inside the phone that the plug plugs into is lost inside the phone, so it can't charge anymore. Pretty much, I need to get a new phone. Keep in mind this phone was extremely cheap, it's not a camera phone, no texts, etc. And this is because of my father. I doubt he will ever trust me to be responsible with anything. But honestly, this phone is pretty old, I've never complained about it once, but I need a new one.
HOW can I tell my dad that it's broken and I need a new one? Should I say it can be an early christmas present or something? Please give me something to tell him. Also, will it cost him money to get me a new phone? Or will sprint somehow pay for it, because I know people who get new phones every month, but idk if they pay or not. I just don't want my dad to be pissed, he will anyway, but anything you could tell me to say to him would help. Thank you.
Your phone didn't break on it's own, and he's going to realize that. He sounds like the kind of guy that will be upset by this, so don't start begging right away. Tell him the phone is old, and it no longer charges. Obviously you can no longer use it, and he needs to realize this. I wouldn't ask him to get it for you for an early Christmas present though, I'd ask for it as just a Christmas present. Make sure he realizes you aren't expecting much, just a phone to call him and for emergencies and things.
It will cost him money. Sprint won't buy you a new phone unless it somehow messed up on it's own. (I doubt this is the case)
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I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.
Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<
Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.
And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes
First off, it's not weird. I used to say I wanted to have sex with all kinds of guys when I was younger, and I as well hadn't even had my first kiss at that time.
I know what you mean about the experimentation thing. It's understandable. My current boyfriend was my first everything. Kiss, mutual, oral, and sex. Lucky for him, he has had experiences with girls in the past, so he doesn't have to deal with the thought of only being with one. He was a virgin as well when we met, but at least he got the opportunity to be with others. I don't regret having him as my first, but I do think about how I may never do anything with another guy ever again. (We're talking about engagement) But it doesn't bother me. It's a wonderful thing that he's the only one. You may not realize it now, but waiting until you find someone that you love may change your feeling for 'sex until marriage'. You know?
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how long does it take for the n to release an episode online after it has been aired?
Usually about 2 weeks. Or a week after a new episode has come out.
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Sorry I have absolutley no idea what subject to put this under...
I'm 16/f. One of our family friends comes over a lot to our place. He's about 50 and smokes pot and drinks from very early in the morning to when he goes to bed. He's not drunk often because he's used to it. He always looks like he's gonna kiss me and always give me hugs. He grabs my ass and rubs my legs and stuff. I'm not scared of him or what he'll do because I can stand up for myself. Yesterday he was pretty drunk when he came over, I've never seen him like that and when he kept hugging me it felt like he had an erection. He kept showing me dirty stuff on his cell phone infront of my parents who are pretty protective of me and I was so embarrassed. We both have camera phones and he was taking a photo of me and when he took it I saw it slip down a bit so he took a photo of my breasts and saved it. He always makes comments like "that's a nice necklace" or "I like that shirt on you" so he can stare at my breasts. Whenever I say something like about my appearance he grabs me around the waste and whispers that im "f***ing gorgeous". What do you think I should do? I don't want to tell anyone because I think he's harmless and he's a family friend.
Thanks
He's 50 & your 16. That's NOT normal. You should really talk to your parents about this. If you don't want to get this so called 'friend' in trouble, just explain to your parents that you don't feel comfortable being around him, and hopefully they'll understand. If not, try avoiding contact with him at all times. Sometimes you can't solve the problem of icky perverts, you just have to avoid them.
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