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This man i met from tinder is regularly video chatting with me to keep me company in the quarantine and we get along well. But he does this strange thing, he is always telling me how great he is... to the point where i get uncomfortable.
He says things like “Every girl that has ever left me always came back to see if we could try it again but i don’t see any point in taking someone back who took me for granted”
“My ex keeps video chatting me and showing me her breasts and her butt and her vagina and all i ask is ‘how is your mom doing?’ “
“I take care of my friends so well to the point where if one of my friends tells me he is going through a financial struggle, i would take a GROUP of my friends out and pay for ALL of them so that my one friend won’t feel like I’m giving him handouts”
I’m not sure if these are good examples, but he sounds like he’s trying to convince me to be with him because no one has seen the value in him but him. It’s become a red flag in my eyes. There’s something wrong here but I’d like to know what exactly. (link)
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Trust your gut always. If you feel uncomfortable because of something he's saying and or doing than take that as a sign to get out of the situation. Perhaps he's harmless and perhaps he isn't but if something is constantly telling you something is wrong it's almost always right. As far as knowing the reasons why the situation is wrong or why he acts a certain way it really doesn't matter. What does matter is your safety and comfort and right now you feel both aren't there around him. That's really all you need. I would bail on the situation. It's always better to be safe than not especially if he's making you feel icky and constantly being inappropriate.
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