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First off. Im 26 female. Full-time job. I have not had a significant other in 4 going on 5 years. My last guy left me very heartbroken. And kept reappearing in my life . which allowed him to fully move on but not me. Last august i started therapy for depression, loneyness, panic attacks and anxiety. On a good day, things are good and hopeful. On a bad day.. Im very unconfident. I feel like my friend's dont put any effort in to invite me to things, And i feel like i will always be alone.I am on 3 dating websites and it seems like no one wants me. Most of my friends are hooked up so they do not want to go out past 9pm or they dont want to go to events that i might meet people at.
I try to be strong. To be hopeful. But my some days my love keep being just that.. Somday. I know im missing that part of happiness. I just dont know how to be happy with being alone and not having friends or someone to share my life and different events with. Im almos to the point of love will never happen to me again. I had my chance and it failed. I also keep hearinf my brain say somepeople just dont get their happy endings. But i hate saying itbbecause it makes me realize just how sad i am. And theres nothing i can do about it. Does anyone have advice or things i can read to beleive. It hurts being alone. Its so quiet. :(:'( (link)
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Hey! Dr.D here!
Don't be sad. Its okay. Let me tell you something.
A few years back, something like 4-5. I had a girlfriend. She was the light of my day. She was beautiful, funny, smart, always happy! One time she caught me crying before we had been dating because I lost my grandfather. And as I sat in this dark room, she held me tight and pet my head and kept telling me all these happy things, and when I felt better. she stared making jokes and made me forget! She made me so so so so so so so very happy... Till she died.
After that, I went into a deep deep depression. I had to go to therapy, I had to take pills. I even checked myself in asylum. I was a harm to myself. I brought clouds everywhere I went.
To this day. I remain single. I try my best to keep up a smile, and make jokes and be the light that she was to me. I will always remember her, and I will keep what she gave.
Now your probably thinking: Why is this dude telling me this depressing story of how his life fell apart? Because I know where you are. Your sad, your alone. You want a friend. Someone to love. I dont even know what to say. But, I can be your friend. I can help you, if you have questions, or if your feeling lonely or sad. I know the pain. So let me help you. If you want, feel free to message me privately and I will help you.
Life is hard. And we make it harder. But we also make it, a little better. Trust in me. And let me help you. If you ever need to talk. Go ahead and message me. And I'll help you, almost like a friend. :-)
-Braden Dwinell
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Thank you!! (notsure why this question posted twice haha.. Only posted it once)
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