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so basically friend A told me that friend B told her that I talked shit behind her, which I didn't, and it's actually B that talked shit about A and I just listened.
It all started when friend A accused B because A said that friend C said something about B. B then dragged me down too and say that I talked shit about A. Now I admit that I was there when B was trash talking about A but I never did talk shit about A, i was the one who changes the topic because I dont want drama. Although A said that she still trusts me, I believe that things are still quite awkward between us, and I don't know about friend B, i mean she just dragged me down when I really trusted them BOTH and I just didn't know she would say something like that.
Please tell me what I should do with A and B x (link)
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Tell the truth that while you were physically present and heard what was being said that you never participated in the conversation and it made you unfcomfortable. Tell her that you don't talk "shit" about people ever. The only mistake you made was NOT telling your friend what people were saying behind her back. You may like this girl who did this to your friend but I would think long and hard whether she's the kind of person you want in your inner circle.
If she talks badly about people she may be doing it about you and anyone she knows. The person who she said vile things about needs to know so she can make a decision about what to do. If this friend doesn't believe you didn't partake in this there's not much you can really do.
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