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Hey im 13 year old and female
this will be short. I like this dude at my church. And he likes younger girls.(he is 17)IDK how to get him to like me tho. plz help i at least need some advice on how to get his to kiss me (link)
He's almost 18-years-old which means he's nearly an adult. That's a big problem because the law will see him as such soon and you as a child at 13-years-old. He shouldn't have any interest in someone as young as you. That may not be what you want to hear but it would be a problem for you both. What do your parents think of this? They probably would tell you the same thing.

You can't make anyone like you or kiss you. They have to want those things themselves. All you can do is be yourself, talk to the person, and hope they like you back. You can't get anywhere with anyone without introducing yourself and getting to know who they are.

I'm being honest what you have here is a crush you cannot act on for the reasons above. However, there's nothing wrong with a friendship as long as you don't cross a boundary. It's not a good idea to aim for anything else.


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