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I met this guy online and we were kinda flirting (not proud of it since I usually don't trust many strangers online) but anyway I thought he was interesting and different because he gives sarcastic and witty remarks like I do but anyway after about 2 days of talking he just stopped. Then I texted him first and idk the way he typed changed-he seemed veeeery bored. Then after a few hours he changed his profile picture into him kissing this girl (it's in the title lmao). I'm not mad that he's kissing a girl, I just found it very rude. Should I just stop talking to him? Idk if I made sense anymore I'm just really weirded out and kinda pissed

I can understand how you must be feeling, like someone played with your emotions. But you know what? You should be thankful to him to show the real him before it's too late and painful. So don't judge yourself over it. We all have done such things at some point, so no big deal. I would have just sent him a message saying "Thank you!" and just block him immediately. Him fooling around with you does not make you less worthy or stupid. However this is a good lesson for you to not put your emotions and heart in anything which cannot be proved to be real )) I am not saying that online dating is wrong or bad, but way social media and dating sites have grown, so is the crowd of people who make it a playing ground and scams. Rule of thumb would be not to get involved in anyone unless you meet them personally. If someone is avoiding to do so, it's for a reason and you need to be smart enough to understand that.

You don't need to be pissed off or beat yourself up for being silly. Relax and stop judging yourself. You may come across many more people like him in your life; not only online but in your real life, so get over it and move on with the lesson learnt ))

Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Lol thanks I just needed someone to slap me with the truth haha good job lol :3
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