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Ok so last week sunday i asked him if i can see him but then i havent heard from him a few days untl i textd hm to say he musnt forget to let me knw and he said he wont the next day he textd me to say friday i then asked what time and he said he dnt jnw i then said ok and thank you and he textd bck asking for what and i said letting me see you the next morning he textd me to say he will let me knw cause hes gna let me knw cause hs nt sure whats happing i then said okay but then i havent heard frm hm so i textd hm and tld hm to njoy hs wkend yesterday i got a msg frm hm to ask what im doing tonight i then replied bt he ddnt get it so i phoned hi twice bt he ddnt pick up hs phone..he then went online but never read any of my msgs he probably dltd it i then phnd hm again but he again neva answerd..so i texd hm sorRy bout the phone calls..i dnt knw if he got or read it..ths morning i mgsd hm again to say sorry and that i was lukn forward to seeing hm but it neva happend and i hope il see hm soon weneva...im not sure if he got or read my msgs bt i heard absolutely nothing from him...why did he text me if he lnew he was goNa ignore me again..i feel embarassd cause i made a fo0l from myself and he is probably thinking it hay..i was really luking forward to seeing hm but then that happend..do you think its over this time,will i hear from him again..i decided to move on though cause i dont think hs intrested anymore he is playing games with me hey..dd i handle the situation wrong..was i clingy or whateva cause i phoned hm thrice..what do i do if he shows up again please help do you think he will..we hardly speak must i just stay away (link)
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Yeah im sorry to say this to you but it sounds like you came off pretty desperate and like your just chasing him and this is coming from someone who is looking in from the outside of this whole situation (me).
A guy that really likes your back as much as you like him will WANT to see you even if the cost is high know what i mean?? why should you chase a guy who doesnt like you as much as you like him?? thats not being fair to yourself and your under valuing yourself.
Theres a theory that i live by when it comes to this kinda stuff and basically its that emotionally, when someone is willing to go sooo far out on a limb for someone else, they often find out that their standing there alone.
This means that if you like or are more invested in someone who is not feeling the same way back then youll find yourself heartbroken when you discover that they dont value you as much as you value them.
Just think about that when you have personal relationships (really of any kind) not just with guys. ; )
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that makes lots of sense thank you!!!
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