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I'm 14 years old and I'm in love. The guy is older but we plan on getting married and having all of six kids together. I want to wait until we get married to have sex but he says he's not gonna wait that long. I know he's the one for me and I know that we will work out because I just know, but, the thought of me being a virgin and him not being one just kills me. He's very honest and he told me that he isn't a virgin but I'm scared of being judged. What if I don't do it right? What if he ends up having sex with someone else because I wont give it to him? I'm terrified and I just cant get hurt again right now. I'm sorry this was so long but thank you for your time. (link)
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This is an exciting time in your life. You are in love so wonderful!
If your rule is to wait until marriage and he does not support that rule that's a pretty big deal.
If you know that he is the one you shouldn't have all of these things to worry about.
If you do marry him one day and he loves you he will not judge you by how you are in bed. That's the difference between lust and love so you don't have anything to worry about.
Lastly seems like you are very afraid of being hurt again. I know it's easier to say this but don't think about that too much. Have fun! live in the moment. If you get hurt so be it. You will move on and find someone who will love you for you! and that is what you ultimately want from your boyfriend or husband..
Good luck and remember if he loves you he will wait!!!
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Thank you so much. Since I asked that question, things have gotten better for us and he is totally willing to wait. I don't know what I was so worried about. Thanks for your time and Merry Christmas!
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