Member Since: November 3, 2015 Answers: 80 Last Update: February 16, 2018 Visitors: 3813
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Thank you for your well reasoned answer that is free of hate. You make a lot of sense!
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Thank you I truly appreciate the advice... He was born Jan 30 at 4:18pm, I went through with the adoption it was the hardest thing I've ever been through, but as I had my perfect little boy I knew in the bottom of my heart that he deserved so much more then I could ever give him. I got to spend the three days with him and I'd go through labor over and over just to get to spend three more holding him, I NEVER thought raising him would ruin my life it would of made it perfect but me raising him could of ruined his, I wouldnt be able to provide for him sometimes love isn't enough, I let the best gift I've ever gotten be raised by someone who could give him the world, I talk to the parents still and he's doing good, I will get to be in his life I just wish I would of got my life together before this happened because next time it does, my life will be ready but the hardest part is knowing it won't be him, I didn't realize how quickly your lI've devolopes when you hear that first cry and as hard as it is, him being happy is the ONLY thing that matters to me but thank you for your advice anyway,
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Thanks for your advice and for understanding x
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Thank you so much. Since I asked that question, things have gotten better for us and he is totally willing to wait. I don't know what I was so worried about. Thanks for your time and Merry Christmas!
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Aww thanks. I'll be leaving it up then
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