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Hey, I am born female but identify as genderfluid. But I'm sick of it, I'm sick of the constant fluctuation of my gender and I'm sick of always having to state my pronouns and explain what it means. I don't want to be genderfluid, I want to be a boy or a girl, I don't want to be a mixture of both! But I can't be transgender as I don't fully feel like a boy but I'm not cisgender as I defiantly don't always feel like a girl, it's so frustrating and I don't know what to do! If anyone has any advice to help me out that would be really appreciated, but I don't want any transphobic replies or rude or insulting things said, thank you.
Hey there. I'm a total Christian and I stick to my beliefs. You should decide to be a girl since you were born a girl. I do not understand your frustration with this subject but I do understand the whole world of frustration, meaning, I can only imagine how you feel. All I can really say is stick with being a girl because that's how you were born and God doesn't make mistakes. Everything happens for a reason, I promise. Thanks for your time.
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If you choose to be Christian and stick to your beliefs, that's your choice, however it's no one's choice to be transgender. You saying "I should decide to be a girl" is wrong, because my gender identity isn't my choice. If you want to try to understand my frustration then imagine being your gender now, then waking up tomorrow and you're the opposite gender. How would you feel? Being who you are but stuck in the wrong body. It's horrible and luckily for you you won't have to experience what that feels like. On the basis that God is real I can think of many mistakes he's made, like natural disasters, diseases like Cancer, and suffering in general. But one thing that isn't a mistake is any non cisgender person, because they are still people just like cisgender people are, and I hope you understand this.
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