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My sister has had a tough time recently. She got sacked but not through fault of her own. She doesn't have friends to go out with so she suggested we see the fireworks tomorrow night (every year Nov 5th here in England ) because she finishes her job then.
However my boyfriend whom I've not seen in weeks is coming to see me and we're planning to see the fireworks.
Neither knows the other wants to come. They get on to a point but I'd rather it be me and my boyfriend on a romantic date. However I really don't want to upset my sister as she has no one else because she doesn't make as much effort with ppl. We're twins incidentally.
What should I do? What I want or support my sis ?
I know this answer is a little late, sorry for that. You need to tell your sister this and you need to tell her that she needs to make an effort to make friends. You can not carry her through life but you can show her how to carry herself. Explain to her that you need time with your boyfriend alone and that she should back off. Remember, it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
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Best advice on here, thank you!
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