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Okay so I've had the biggest crush on this girl for almost a year. She is so cute and perfect. I haven't told her anything because first of all, I don't think she's into girls. She's 3 years younger than me and I know it would not work out. I guess I have just held on to the little hope that she might be into me too because there had been occasions where she would blush when we would talk. Or when she asked me if I had a boyfriend randomly. Or when she would try to hang with me as much as possible but then again, maybe it was all in my head that maybe a wonderful girl like her would like me back. Anyway, I need to get over her. I just don't know how. I don't go to the same school as her anymore but I still have her on social media. I'm constantly checking up on her (not In a creepy way, maybe a little, kidding.) I think it's time for me to move on. I'm just hurting myself over and over again. She probably has no idea that I have a huge crush on her. It's kind of pathetic, I know. So any advice on how to get over someone that I never even dated? Thank you.
Before you get over her, tell her how you feel, and make sure that you are not letting someone go that could be something more. You don't know unless you try, and you could be trying to get over someone who is waiting for you to tell them how you feel. For a while, just forget age and how the relationship wouldn't work, I strongly believe that as long as you like each other, the things getting in the way won't matter any more. If she responds telling you she likes you, too, then great! Have fun, treat her right, spend time with her, do whatever you can for her. If she replies saying she doesn't want to be with you, it will hurt, of course, but it will finally give you the closure you need. If you find out that she doesn't feel the same way, then you should remove her from everything, for a start. Whatever social networking websites you have her on, delete her on every single one, and explain to her that you need to move on. Constantly checking up on her on social media makes your feelings even stronger and even worse. Having nothing to do with her with lead you to finally find that you don't think about her as much, and then you'll find, eventually, that you are over her, and maybe you'll meet someone else! Sometimes, you don't need to get over someone, you need to find out if they feel the same. I hope everything goes well for you, and I hope this is a happy ending. Good luck!
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Thank you! I greatly appreciate the advice!
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