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Hi... I was in a long distance relationship... After texting and calling for what seemed like forever,a few years we saw each other...... We did this week... And we had a long talk.
And he broke up with me.. Saying we couldn't be together. That he couldn't give me 110% and that further down the road he would cheat on me. And to not wait for him anymore. And I was wonderful and all that crap....
Now,here is the confusing part..
He said right after 'don't wait for me' that he isn't 100% giving up on him and I... Us... Later he went on to say... All I needed to do was move out here (in the bay area) and get a part time job..
I asked him if he could do better than me.... He said no..
He said he didn't want to break up with me... He didn't want to do this... He loves me... And I saw it in his eyes that he didn't want to hurt me or break my heart.... His body language was so uncomfortable... And his eyes had some held back tears going on....
I've left messages... He hasn't responded... But he keeps viewing my Snapchat..
Also,he said he was going to pray for me and to text him when I got home... And he wanted to keep talking and stay in touch... Which obviously he has not...
Another thing.. I looked straight in his eyes... And I asked him... Is there a battle going on inside of you still even though you made a choice? He responded with yes..... I told him,that if he was still battling with a desicion after he made a choice,that it was the wrong one...
Advice please,what do I do now? Did he make the right choice? Even though he's still deciding in heart what do even though he made a choice? What is going on?? Thanks for the advice in advanced (link)
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Long distance relationships are Never easy or ideal. Not to be sexist at all, but it is especially hard for guys because quite a lot of them are more physical (not all of course) so having you there with him is what he would prefer, naturally. He clearly wants to still be with you but just in person and not far away, which is understandable. Frankly, long distance isn't a good idea, so in a way, I think he made the right call. The reason he hasn't been responding is most likely bc he is trying to make it easier on himself to move on, bc if he loves you, talking at first to you isn't going to help you two move on. So you can either do one of two things: 1. try to move on and eventually stay friends, or 2. have one of you two move near each other and stay together.
Hope this helps~
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Thank you!! I still don't think he made the right choice!!! I hope by a miracle I can move within a month!!! Thank you again!!
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