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I'm so worried about dating. I'm 18 and in university and I haven't dated anyone or even kissed a guy. I do want to eventually settle down and I have had crushed on guys but it's just so hard for me to talk to them and I feel that sometimes it's just not worth the effort. Then there is a the whole virginity thing, in my culture it's expected that I will only lose my virginity after marriage and I want it to be that way, but it seems so unlikely that someone will want to wait that long! I don't know how to find out if they would or not! Even guys from my culture aren't interested as far as I know! I'm not really sure what kind of advice I want but anything would be helpful I guess! Have you experienced anything similar? (link)
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Don't give up your standards for yourself, for anyone. If you want to wait for marriage, then stick with that, and eventually you will find someone who will accept all of you, which includes your standards. I believe there is someone out there for everyone, so don't worry about never finding someone or anything like that. I definitely understand where you're coming from, though. I know how it is to talk to guys, and I am trying myself to push myself out of my comfort zone and talk to guys more. It's a work in progress, and I believe it could happen for anyone.
I hope this helps~
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Thank you! I hope you reach your goal as well! :)
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