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I work with this lady i am really interested on her but just that one thing thats keeping me away from her is that Facebook status it say in a relationship when i work with her her action doest indicate that she's in a relationship all the go signal that i can think of is there i know when your in a relationship you would know just base on her action i know ladys would mention it you would just know with her none body language everything a go signal one time i showed that one of the parts of my surfboard i surf you know one time i said one of the hostess wants to learn how to surf so then when i said that its like a beam of light came out of nowhere i don't know bc she was jealous or that i didn't ask her first or she just want to learn how to surf i don't know anyways she automaticly ask me to teach her how to surf then when she was walking away she then said your gonna take me how to surf i that point when i was talking to her she was loughing when i know its not even funny the other time is when i showed her a picture of my friends we were having a party she then goes wow!!!that look so fun she then goes why was i not invited!!!!all i buying signal right but that Frekken Facebook status what is that all about (link)
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A lot of people keep details of their private life private. They dont necessarily talk about family or people they are with at work. It doesnt pertain to the job. You can tell her that you didnt invite her surfing or to a party before in the event she was with someone. Tell her you didnt want to seem inappropriate.
Her Facebook page is her private space. Unless she invites you to it I wouldnt mention it. It will make her question what you were doing on it and may have her take a negative view. Also, the in a relationship status bar may be true but could be outdated. I know some people msy also use it if they dont want one either or to deal with people who may.
All I would do is mention the surfing and party and tell her you didnt invite her because you werent sure whether her significant other would object. The thing is maybe all she sees you as is a co-worker or nice guy. Pursuing her beyond that would be bad. If there is no signal of her showing interest move on.
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you know group dates are just a killer on a first date what seems to always work say starbucs for example be in there for about 30 to 45 minutes what my intention when i mention surfing was just to create a topic to rise interest blabbing your mouth into something that doesn't create interest i think will just ruin your chances social event for example are a good idea surfing.party it shows you are a very interesting person this lady knows i have been working in there for about 5 to 6 years she knows that i have not hangout with anybody that I've work with working in the restaurant is like being in that shows jerry springer she knows that i have never ever dated somebody that i have work with they were couple times that i could of had a chance to date somebody but i have always said no but this is she's different working in the restaurant I've always see it as just a job nothing else with her she just comes of nowhere and boom she maybe or i think she will change my mine on how i see it so like i said her action tells me that she is interested what my question i think she gotten bored with the boyfriend or the guy won't let her go
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