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I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been thinking about options out of life for almost three years now. I keep finding things to hold on to and I try to look for the little miracles in life but it's getting harder. I'm honestly so sick of living with who I am and things seem to only go downhill. Last year in high school I had to deal with a lot of sexual harassment and was beaten and had someone forcibly remove my clothes in the school. I've always felt sad and upset before that incident, but after the constant torment last year my self esteem has plummeted and I just want to die. My parents don't understand why I'm so upset (especially because I have a loving family) and they make me feel bad for feeling these emotions which only hurts me further. I'm at my last breaking point and I'm not sure where to go from here. I don't want to die, but it feels like the only way out. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
You seem very depressed, so I suggest you try getting help. Counseling could greatly help you, and especially getting medicine for this kind of thing. There are even all natural anti-depressants, like I take one called St. John's Wart, (not as weird as it sounds) which really helps with my depression. But you still should talk about this stuff with people. Try explaining to your family what is going on with you so that they can help and understand better. Trust me, it is So much better knowing you have support from the people around you. You can also talk to me whenever you need it, if you want. But please seal help. Death is never the only nor right option, and life can get better if you just stick with it and get help with these things. You don't have to go through this alone, and there are so many beautiful/amazing things to life worth seeing. Don't give up and just get some help.
Hope this helps~


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Thank you so much! It's truly heartwarming to know that I'm not alone in this and that things do have the potential to get better. I truly appreciate what you said and hopefully it will give me the courage to get help. I hope you're doing good as well:)




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