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I'm 20, female, junior in college.
For my junior year, I decided to commute for a job that I got while I was home and to save money. For my senior year, my old roommate and I had planned to get an apartment and live together. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that commuting was the better option, especially since I want to work my way up at work and I can't do that if I don't work that much. I guess I never told my old roommate that I didn't make the payment to live on campus next year and she texted me today and said that we should plan a dinner for the girls we want to live with next year and I have no idea how I'm going to tell her that I'm commuting again. She has issues with her roommate this year and every time she would complain to me about her, I would always just tell her "next year, we'll be together again" and now we won't be and that's totally my fault, I know. But commuting is the better option for me living a half an hour away and having a job and probably looking to intern - I just don't see a reason to move back on to campus. So, I was just wondering an easy way to tell her that I just can't do it, that I'm commuting again and I'm sorry I'm a terrible friend for letting her down like that. Help, please. I know I'm probably being childish but I was never one that could easily let people down like that and I feel like her thinking that I was moving back on campus next year this whole time was building her hopes up and now I have to tell her that I'm not. (link)
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Just be honest and say something like exactly what you said! " I just can't do it, and I'm commuting again, and I'm sorry I'm a terrible friend for letting you* down." If she is your close friend, then she should understand. You have to do what's best for you, and she may even find another good roommate.
Hope this helps~
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