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hey, am just a girl and am confused,
i hate my family for some reasons,
which is in my family they are so
protective, am from a big family
like i live with my dad, my mom
passed away 6 years ago but really i
can say i live in two house one
where my dad is there, and the
next one is where my grandma,
aunt live. and i have a sister which
is in college who everybody loves,
don't get me wrong i love her
too ,but the problem is when she
come everyone acts like i don't
exist anymore especially my aunt
she always makes me feel bad
about my self when she comes she
forgets me. am uncomfertable
around her, she ignores me even
when i say hi like am the adapted
child or something,i hate her for
that, oh... she see her like a
dimond, care for her but when it
comes to me she is just like do that,
and do this she doesn't even care if
am sick, am so tired of this, its so
stupid am a highschool senior and i
don't think that i deserve this and
the other thing is i don' t have
confidence with my self with my
looks evenso everybody says am
beautiful beacuse everybody sees
me as little for the reason that i am
thin, and have a baby face, i don't
have great hair or my hand is rough
everything about me i hate. and she
have everything that i don't have
and my aunt always tell her she is
beautiful but she never tell me that
i am, so thats not hard to guess how
i feel anyway i don't know how to
feel anymore so please help!!! (link)
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I'm sorry that your family does that to you, thats not right at all. Sometimes family can be disapointing, but that doesnt mean it has to make you feel like shit about yourself. Everyone has beauty, you just need to find yours. It doesnt mean having to be physically attractive or the smartest or wahetever, you just have to be the best you. Be kind and have a loving heart, try to help those in need.. even if its just making someone smile or smiling at a stranger to make themselves feel good. That is beautiful. Try to find your passion, what you want to do in life and focus on that, try a bunch of things to see what you like and dont like ajd what you do like use it as a healthy way to keep yourself productive and try to get better at it.. everyone has a purpose and is important in life, your sister and everyone else are not better or worse than you. And if you dont feel good about your looks, try changing it or trying a new style to help you gain confidence. And yeah dont let your family get to you, find true friends who will believe in you and make you feel good about yourself and do your own thing. Itll be alright. I hope this helped, good luck!
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thank you very much for your help!!!
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