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Hi

I'm GrinningCheshire

I'm gay btw

Anyways I will try to help u with all my might but not with sports,not my fortè.




Location: Quezon City,,Philippines
Age: 16
Member Since: June 19, 2014
Answers: 47
Last Update: May 10, 2018
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
May I just call you friend even though we are not that close?

Anyway,just tell him that his overprotectiveness will just kill your relationship slowly and try to understand his POV point of view besides he might have had some history of being too lenient in a relationship

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Rating: 5
Thank you. I ended up dumping him.




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