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My parents have left me in charge at home while they are away of my sister 15 and brother 12.
Yesterday I caught my sister wearing a bikini(sliding triangle top and small side tying bottoms)that she is not supposed to have and taking SELFIES of herself in it, that she was going to send to the guy that bought the bikini for her that is nearly as old as me.

What do I do
1. Give her the bikini back, pretend I know nothing about it and possibly land myself in trouble if my parents find out about the bikini.
2. Keep the bikini give it to my parents on their return and tell them about the SELFIES and the guy, my sister will be in big trouble.
3. Give my sister a chance but insist the bikini is destroyed as part of the deal. (link)
The bikini is her possession. It's up to your parents to decide whether she is allowed to have it. You need to make them aware of it and step back and allow them to parent.

You should tel your sister that the bikini is hers and may be okay with your parents but that taking pictures in it and sending to random people could be really dumb and illegal if she's a minor and recipients are adults. You need to fill her in on how dangerous that can be. Then tell your folks. They need to know. Make absolutely no deals with her and destroy nothing. Let your parents take it from there.


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I would like to thank you for your advice, I have decided to keep hold of the bikini and hand it over to my parents and also tell them what happened as well




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