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Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years now and have an 8 month old son together. Up until a month before our son was born we had a good sex life and were having sex a lot. After our son was born we started bearly having sex about once a month. Now he gets all mad when I try to have sex with him and tells me no. He doesn't even want me to see him naked or touch his private area. I feel like we are little kids. Please tell me why you think he doesn't wanna have sex with me. It is really hurting me.
Your boyfriend sounds like he is having trouble adjusting to having a child to look after. I would take what he said about not wanting another child at face value - he simply doesn't want another child. Are you using contraception at the moment? If not then this will be the biggest reason he doesn't want to have sex with you. If you make it clear that having sex will not make you pregnant, he will come back to you.
You can use condoms, the pill, an IUD, or any other contraception your doctor prescribes.
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!!!:) I have an appointment to get birth control and you were correct about what you said. He was very happy when I told him I made the appointment.