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I'm 15 and my friends(a little older than me) have been dating all that stuff.
I'm homechooled,and I live in a really small town so I don't really know any guys, and I really don't have much of a desire to date.
My family is Christian(I even live across the street from my church) and conservative.
I was wondering about when I have a boyfriend. I would have no idea what to do since I've never dated before, And considering that my freinds have already done sexual things, I'm worried he'd pressure me.
I would much rather wait to lose my virginity(preferably till marrage),I don't want a relationship to be all about sex and making out and stuff, I want it to be like we're best friends and all I really need is a guy who is nice, has a sense of humor, and treats me well.
I don't know...I guess I'm just afraid that when I do get a boyfriend he'll try to pressure me to do stuff I'm not ready for and I might not be able to say no... I'm really shy and I just don't know how to talk to guys either... (link)
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When you begin to want to date someone be straight up about your beliefs, upbringing and what you are uncomfortable with. Most people who like you will not bat an eyelash on that. If you don't want to do something don't and be firm on it.
As for talking to guys it's no different than talking to someone else. Just treat them like you would a normal conversation. You never said why you are home-schooled but perhaps its time to consider being with your peers as the lack of socialization i definitely hurting you.
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