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Hii .... 14/F. I got this song on my computer and it was about a girl who's dad has died.* so here's my story... When I was 3 years old my mom and dad got divorsed because my dad is a alcoholic and he was allways like abousing us and most of the time we slept lockked up in the bathroom*..* so my mom met my stephdad and we bacame very lose bacause I never had a dad when I was 10 he died of cancer...* it was so bad I had to get help.* it worked but someyimes I just really miss my stephdad..* and I don't want to cry bacause my mom don't really understand why I'm crying..* I really miss him..* what should I do? And there's no one I can talk to..* (link)
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Grief is a difficult thing and experienced differently by everyone and for children is often more intense than adults. It's okay to be sad one moment and not know what to feel the next. You had a deep connection to this man and processing that and feelings about his death is profound.
I know your mother would understand and appreciate that this is troubling you. It's important to be honest about this to her. You would benefit greatly from professional counseling with a grief counselor and or therapist who can help you understand your feelings and reaction to this event in your life. Definitely tel your mother or a trusted adult what's going on. I know they will assist you.
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Thank you very much. My mom doesn't seem to care which is why I can't talk to her. someone else suggested I talkto his family and that has helped a lot because they are hurting like I am. Thank you
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