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OK! So I have gotten really close to a guy I have known for a year now. He's a little older than me (Junior boy-Freshman girl) and I think he likes me! I'm at the point where I kind of want to start flirting. Physically and verbally. Like breaking the touch barrier a little more (he already broke it) we both are shy for a heads up (he's kind of shy and awkward- its adorable) but he has told me- I am beautiful (twice!) that he doesn't look forward to graduating because he'll be leaving some friends behind, especially me. Also we talk everyday after 5 o'clock (he has a summer job working for his dad) and we have a lot in common (dark music, Egypt-related stuff, writing/ reading and Marching/Concert Band) SO I would love some advice on how to flirt with him (physically/touching him and talking) and I also have one more question. Why is it that when a guy texts/calls you everyday at the same time is a 'sign' that he likes you?? I'm confused/curious about that... Thank you a lot. I have band camp coming up and he says he can't wait to see me! So yeah please help me with flirting advice... I need help!

Ok, considering that he compliments you, you talk everyday and are excited about seeing eachother, it shouldn't be hard to flirt with him. Since he is abit shy, I would start by complimenting him - 'I like your ___ you're wearing today' 'your ___ is sexy' 'I would love to cuddle with you right now', things like that. Physically: touch his leg if you're sitting next to him, walk over and hug him when you catch him looking at you, run your fingers through his hair, hold his hand if you're comfortable with that, offer to give eachother back massages then do it and if he accepts all that I just mentioned, you can then lean in and kiss him.. it's a pleasant surprise for a guy. I personally think cuddling is the best flirtation though (: Ask him if he wants to watch a movie at your place one night or learn to play a new song together - find something you both enjoy and use it as flirting/getting to know eachother more time.


When a guy texts you a lot in general, its usually a sign he likes you. Why? Well, why would a guy want to talk to you so often if he doesn't like you? An if he does it at the same time everyday, that tells me that this guy is making/saving time for you - cuz you're special to him. Everytime you see him, smile and give him a hug. This is a guaranteed way to get you out of the friendzone! :) After a while flirting will just become natural to you. Find out what he likes and you'll be on your way to becoming more than friends. .. (:

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!! :D Your advice really helped me! :)
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