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Yo wassup? I'm 13 years old, living in NY. I'm a guy.
Many of my friends got girlfriends. They say they had sex with them . I'm the only one that haven't had sex yet. My problem is I want to have sex with someone but I don't know with who or how to solve the sex problem about my friends.
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Those guys are probably full of hot air and are saying they have because their other friends have said it to sound cool. I bet the majority are virgins as is almost always the case with braggarts.
At 13 you really shouldn't be doing this or considering it. You don't need the consequences pregnancy etc. It's better to find someone you care deeply for rather than just a random person as it's much more meaningful.
Furthermore, virginity is not a "sex problem" to get rid of. Even if your friends have engaged in it this doesn't mean you have to right now. It's best for when you are ready so it comes with no regrets. It's a personal choice that they cannot make for you nor should influence.
Also, how are they going to know unless you told them? Trust me, by waiting you're being real smart. Just watch them and see what kind of trouble comes from it. That will be indicator that waiting until older, more mature, responsible isn't a bad thing at all.
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