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I'll answer question on pretty much anything, though as I'm studying psychology and from past experience, I'm best at answering questions about love life, mental illness as well as giving career advice or job advice. I am also really into fashion and love these types of questions!. Oh and any pet help...
I have an average rating of 4.5 on here. Only inbox me questions that are short please and not about death/suicide. Honestly, there's nothing more dull that opening your inbox to 'I want to die'.
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Hi Im 18 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year our anniversary is next month. we get along just fine and haven't had sex, we respect each other about anything and just last weekend my boyfriend and were at my house my parents were gone and he came over i played guitar in front of him for a while then we ended up making out but as we started making out, all of a sudden I feel his hand going under my shirt
Trying to feel my breasts. It made me feel good but at the same time I felt like its bad I don't know if I should've said something I mean afterwards he asked me if it was ok with me and also said he wasn't ready for sex but he respects me. I don't know what to think but I love him
I'm 18 too :)
It seems like you have a slight fear about sexual contact-as most people do.
Clearly, you're not ready yet, and you have to accept that that is ok. Although you're 18, it still feels quite a jump into adulthood, having sex.
Maybe he was going to fast for you? And that's ok, as long as you let him know. Obviously, he wants to move the relationship slightly further, whilst you were perhaps happy as you were.
So long as you let him know that it's not disinterest and more 'not ready', there is no issue here.
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I feel a little in between I do like it but idk maybe its new to me you know i don't know...
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