This is about my female teacher and I'm a female too.
sometimes i have caught her looking at me.Sometimes when we look at each other, either she looks away quickly or I have to break eye contact.
When she is teaching, 90% of the time she is looking at me.
When she makes a joke, or makes fun of a student in our class (when I say makes fun of someone, I don't mean that she's mean to the student.) she always looks at me after and smiles.
One time our class had to bring something for a shared lunch, and most of the boys forgot to bring something, so the teacher said to them that they had to sing a song, so the boys asked what song, and then the teacher said "girls just wanna have fun" then straight away she looked at me...
I brought cupcakes (I know, cupcakes are for younger people, not people in highschool, but it's the only thing I could bring lol) and the teacher had one, then I saw her take a bit of icing off of her cupcake and lick it off of her finger while looking at me then she smiled...like trying to be sexy?
Sometimes when the bell goes, she stands by the door and when I walk past, our bodies touch. There is plenty of room for her to move but she just stands there and obviously doesn't mind our bodies touching? (I'm too shy to say excuse me...)
One time she stopped talking to someone just to say bye, have a nice weekend to me.
When we were in the school library once, she sat next to me. Out of all of the free tables and chairs she sat next to me.
One time when this boy sat next to me, half way though the lesson she comes over to our table sits down next to the boy, and asks the boy why he's sitting next to me.
I don't know I'm just confused, what do you think? What's your opinion?
And I understand the never have a relationship with a teacher thing.
The thing is with questions like thism, a part of you want you're teacher to like you-it gives you a bit of a kick.
But the problem is by overanalysing every sign, not only will your class work go behind, you wont be doing yourself any favours in the long run.
It helps to think of it like this. You're primary school teachers like everyones were probably very touchy feely and things. It doesn't mean they like you, it means they're being friendly. Sometimes, attraction can be confused with meaning well.
If you're to shy to tell someone 'excuse me', then I'm guessing you're shy overall. This means lots of things. Firstly, you're more likely to over evaluate any sign of possible attraction this teacher shows you-and less likely to brush it of.But also, that in a classroom where it's now more common to be loud than reserved, this teacher may be overly concerned with whether you're ok or not.
I don't know if this is what you want to here, but the same thing is happening to me only with a male teacher, except I realize that what would someone in a job that they have competed to get be doing fancying someone 10 + years younger than them, when there are plenty of people their own age.
For your own sanity, you need to forget these feelings. The only time you should take action is if this teacher acts on any possible feelings she has for you.
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