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Hey guys
My boyfriend just got his first car, its really nice too. Im happy for him but to be honest, im worried that this means it is easier for him to go hang out with other girls without me even knowing. This car allows him to be alot more free and mobile and i am not a needy possesive girlfriend but i have been cheated on many times by other guys so i have very bad trust issues.:( i want more than anything to trust him, but now that he has a car, he can pretty much get away with anything right?
Without being patronizing, in like 90% of adult relationships they have a car!
Its sounds like you have to tackle your trust issues head on. Has he cheated before?
I think its a question of perception really. In my view, having a car is a good thing because like you said he has more freedom. Therefore, when he does see you the relationship will be stronger as you wont be together all the time-you'll be very much living separate lives and the coming together again at the end of the day. This is good for a relationship to last.
I doubt your bf would use his new car to pick up girls-after all, it'd have cost him a lot of money, he has to pay a bomb on insurance if its a new car and he has his girl waiting for him back home.
I think try to hush the worries in your head for now else you'll go insane and it'll nag you all the time. Unless he does act strange and as if he is cheating, then its time to ask for help.
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im 15 years old. I dont live with the guy lol
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